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2007-01-15T17:03:00.000+08:00

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Free just come to my new Bloggies~~

HAPPY NEW YEAR

2007-01-03T00:14:00.000+08:00

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYBODY~*

WISHES ALL STATED HERE

1st - Wish that i can happily with my dear dear. LESS quarrel will be better.. hehe..
2nd - Wishing all my GIRL FREN stay CUTE, stay PRETTY, stay YOUNG in heart.. haha~* & also stay happily with their Partners and Family..

3rd - Wishing all my GUY FREN stay HANDSOME(YANDAO) lah``` Stay cute also haha~*

FoR those no partners.. Wish ALL GOOD LUCK TO YOU.. HOPE YOU all find 1 gf/bf soon~*

HOPING this year will not have any things happen..

Hope that WORLD PEACE!! (^-^)v

NO Wars
NO Flood
NO Eartquake
NO Tsunami
NO Virus attack
NO Terriors( did i spell right?) haha~*

WE want World Peace Right? Hope to hear Nice things happen this year.. I dun want bad things happen.. =(

Anyway HAPPY NEW YEAR 2007 to all of you. MUST HAPPY OK.
ALL my friends out there Which one MARRY 1st must tell me hor.. Must invite me ok?

HOPE every one will always happy these year.. DUN SAD or UNHAPPY ok?
IT will make me sad too.. =[ keke~*

EVERYBODY Take Care.. COLD must wear Jacket.. HOT Weather must drink more water ok.. haha i sound so naggy right.. i will stop it liao.. =P

NoW tO my DeaR l0v3 yOu aLwaYs *mUaCks* hehe~* Take carE~**

2006-12-31T03:00:00.000+08:00

I feeling so bad now, cough + flu + headache + heart feel so pain~* Sick for almost 2week++ I didn't even see doctor.. Till now i cough till my throat so pain. haiz.. Who Care? Maybe one day i cough till blood also come out also nobody care.

Who Cares!!??

The feeling from me now is tired, dun know how to talk when with him.. If talk or go out sure never happy ending~* Why must i so tired of these? I sad who knows.. Only People who read my blog know.. Did he have the intend to come and read it.. Maybe Peoples are busy.. EveryBody are busy of work. Where got time come and read those rubbish that i type here.. For those want to see Thank You. For those dun want to see Get out of here.. I won't pray you for reading my blog.

I hate to be SAD,
I hate to CRY =(
I hate to be HEARTBROKEN
I hate MYSELF
I HATE ME!!!!

I really hate to be in Relationship.. I hate myself for treating people to good..
I hate myself for caring people so much.. Why should i care people so much.. And nobody want to put any effort on me.. I tired of giving my care to people.
Can someone come and wack me up?? To let me wake up...

Why Every Time My World Seem So Dark.. Can Someone Bright Me Up?
Is having a relationship so hard?

I'm scare
I'm pain
I'm stupid
I'm stress
I'm tired
I'm useless

Can someone tell me what to do?

I really tired of every things i do..

2006-12-22T03:23:00.000+08:00

My Sick finally get well~* hehe just a bit bit flu now. Not so worse like last week..
Hmmm.. maybe these few days keep on raining.. so caught cold again... YA KEEP ON RAIN!!

Many thing had happen HOR~* Because of Heavy Rain COZ --> Flood in every where, Tree Fall every where.. (-,-)" At Malaysia even Flood heavy then here.. some people died.. HaizZ... Bad... Bad... The Weather's really BAD..

Haiz, I'm tired now GoT tO SleeP.. hehe~ Bye bye~*

2006-12-14T14:35:00.000+08:00

I'm sick sick sick

So boring & tired~* I'm sick~~ so xin ku~* Heavy Flu + headache + cough.. OMG hate it...

dun know what to blog~ hmmm blog again later ba~*

2006-12-03T21:31:00.000+08:00

Sorry to Scare everyone & Let everyone worry..
That Day Just tO stResS sO
say many rubbish out from my Stupid mouth..
I'm ok now.. keke.. hope thiS few days
i wiLL be moRe haPpy..

HaHa~* Tomorrow DarlinG OFF, I'm sO haPpy..
keke becoz had be 4 days never meet him liao`
SuPeR miSs hIm`

Tomorrow maybe i go have my HAIRCUT,
LoLz mY UgLY hair, all dry up..
Maybe go shop for some TOP`
oR maybe gO buY pResent for my cousin..
keke some many things to do tomorrow``

Hope i won't think to much again`
I wanna to be a happy happy girl tomorrow~*

kEkE~*

Today at homE celebrate my FATHER'S Birthday,
When to Sun plaza with my Sister and cousin to buy the Black Forest Cake~^ (^0^)v
after that when to buy my Mango Smoothie.. hehehe.. Yummmy hOr~
But to bad the mango today, not very nice..

when home to celebrate.. chit chat with my cousin & aunt.. SO funny.. and happy..
Thats all loR..
keke~ Just hopE that every day i want to be happy LOR~* I dun want to be sad, unhappy, feeling so bad CAN... I want to be HAPPY HAPPY tomorrow.. OK!!! =P

2006-12-02T00:12:00.000+08:00

I'm so tired now~* mY heaRt sO tirEd~ Really dun know what to do.. Can anyone guide me or tell me.. I can say i really dun know how to love a person. Because I dun love myself. So i dun know how to love a person.. even my family members. I really dun know how to talk to them, every things i just keep to myself. To them maybe i'm useless.. but i had try my best to work out all those things.
Maybe I'm really a STUPID IDIOT, USELESS BITCH.. ASSHOLE, F**KING IDIOT, KNNBCCB, CB.. Or what... More.. I really no use OK!! YA I NO USE.. Even he also know i'm useless.. just let this NEWS out ba.. EVERYBODY HERE READING (I'M TELLING YOU ALL, I'M USELESS OK) I'm really very stress, People won't know how i feel.. Everyone in these world had a selfish act.. but not everybody are like that.. Some they just think of their own feeling.. Never think of others.. Is there any reason why humans are like that!! Is my feeling in a empty bottle or what? Can someone tell me? Can some one tell me, what happen to my life? People died around me, People quarrel around me, People fight around me, People LOVE & HATE each others. If not LEAVE them alone. All peoples around the world FIGHT for $$$MoneY$$$, LOVE, FRIENDSHIP, FIGHT FOR NOTHING SOMETIMES. Do there have anythings to fight with.. I really Hate to fight, I never want to fight, argue, quarrel, or scold the person around me.. Maybe i'm really tired in this world, i hate to be in this world.. Why humans must have feelings? WHY must make a person so SAD, so HAPPY, so STRESS, so TIRED!!!!

I know around me there are alots of people.. more worse or stress than me.. I know i can't compare with them.. But to me i really tired of living.. Becoz of a person, i quarrel with another people, the people say wanna die, i more want to die now ok.. I really very stress ok.. Why people keep on make me more and more stress.. WHY!!! I HATE I HATE!!

2006-11-29T00:02:00.000+08:00

Nov 28

Today when out with darling to bishan at around 7pm becoz must wait for him to finish job 1st.

They aRe BuSybOdy!!!

2006-11-28T04:01:00.000+08:00

THEY ARE BUSYBODY!!!

DarLinG~*
pEopLe saY whaT dUn caRe laH~* tHeiR mOuth likE shiT~* gOt 1 daY the curse, will go to them de~* hAhA tHeY liKe tO saY sO muCh sAy loR~* mOuTh iS theirs.. JusT hOpE thAt 1 day tHeiR mOuTh wOn'T ROT ~*
We Happily ToGeThEr wiTh oUr LovE, I haPpY tOgEthEr wiTh mY sWeetiE SisTers, i aLready vEry haPpY ~*
WhAt fOr LeTTinG a IdiOt oR KPO oR Bastard oR An ORANGE oR a irritating.freakk tO mAkE oUr DaYs feeL sO HAPPY HAH!! I'm DaMn HaPPy lEh~* hAhA`` jUSt hOPe tHaT nO mOrE n0nsEnce frOm thE pErSon aGain!! iF tHeY wAnt tO sAy lEt tHeM sAy LoR!! WE ALSO BO BIAN RIGHT!!! hAhA~*

WoRLd pEaCe mAnn~* pEoPLe mUst aLso pEaCe mAh~* sO bAd mOutH fOr whAt aLsO duN knOw~* kEkEkE~* nOt mY mouTh sO duN cAre laH~ *sLaP mY heaD* hAhA pEopLe saY i stiLL sO haPPy.. gOoD whAt.. gOt Comments then Can ImProvE whAt!!! hAhAhA~* RiGht? mY DarLinG~*

Singapore Motorshow 2006

2006-11-14T02:51:00.000+08:00

Sorry had been a long time never post keke~* i'm back~* nowadays playing MapleStory~ keke~ busy level up~* Take Care Every Body``

SunDay 12 Nov

When to Suntec with DeaR DeaR~* To Watch the Singapore Motorshow 2006.. lolx many people wor... hehe.. But happily seeing all those CAR and Snap lots of photos.. Love those car so much.. But hahaha... NO MONEY to buy.. Some of the car are too expensive..

Here are the photos that I snaps..

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After that we when to Marina Square for a walk~* went there to eat and shop.. I ate the laksa there.. eeee.. pui~* not nice de~* but bo bian.. Still ate it down~* I still prefer KATONG LAKSA~* keke~* nice nice^^ DeaR ate Char Siew Mee.. sO nice~~* haha becoz i complain not nice, so he let me taste 1 spoon~~ haha not good de~* keke^^ next time dun eat there liao~* I think i not full enough.. when to buy a piece of cake to eat together with dear dear.. keke so sweet.. sit outside marina square staircase and eat.. and seeing our Beautiful S'pore~~ hahaha~ ^-*

DeaR DeaR Sorry that i every time bully you~* I know sometime i abit stubborn~* But you still can control~ =DD If can't control must tell me~ dun run away hor~* keke~* I will scare scare de``

2006-11-07T03:14:00.000+08:00

Yesterday when to Chinatown with Meng Hao~ Go to a Pub caLL eBar..
After that Dear Dear Come and find me~ lolx We drink together.. sO boreD.. lolx.. I drink to much.. hahaha turn become a snake walking on the road..

Dear DeaR go Reservice liao~ sO siaN.. sObsOb... MiSs yOu sO mucH~ tOmorroW dun know wat time DeaR DeaR come out.. sO siaN.. hOpe hE cAn comE oUt early.. *mUaCk*

2006-11-05T03:07:00.000+08:00

4 NoV 2006 Saturday
When To Clarke Quay

Get Your Own! View Slideshow

SAD & TIRED

I'm Super tiReD tOdaY~ sOmE tHinG haPpEn juSt noW!!! haizZ I really hate myself.. I Search for someone for 5hr++*~ I'm damn stress & tired now both of my leg cramp~ For keep on walking..
I at bugis search him for 3hr+++ he dun want to come out, I walk all over the Bugis for 4 to 5 times each floor^ each corner^ i find. I still can't find him.. when to his bike there to find him for 4-5 time also can't find him.. I dun know why he want to run away from me? I call him, but hp off.. I Search.. Wait.. Search.. Wait.. Search.. When i'm so tired.. I still dun give up.. even my gastric pain.. leg pain.. hand cramp.. hard to breathe.. I still search for him.

After Bugis, I when to Golden Mill -> Billard Centre to find him.. When to hiS oLd houSe, BLK 25 tO finD hiM buT i gEt whaT.. I sTiLL caN't finD hiM..
In the end my both legs so hurt till i can't even stand properly or walk properly.. I really want to cry out, I'm over tired.. till now my leg still so pain, my gastric still so pain.. My eyes is so tired.. I think i should really take care myself alot. If not i going to have a Serious sick coming!!!!

Just want him to know.. I'm tired, maybe i'm the one who start to quarrel, but why you need to throw me at bugis..
I'm in the fault to quarrel with you.. but do you think yourself got wrong!! Everytime is my fault.. Everytime you off your phone.. Dun answer my call.. Why you need to treat me like that.. You dun want to explain to me.. dun want to tell me properly.. we have communication breakdown~ If you still dun want to solve the problem. I really nothing to say liao~ Even i say, you also won't listen in.. Just treat me like an idiot.. talking rubbish.. Next time i won't care you liao.. You want to do what, just do ba.. what for i care for you.. But you dun care for me~ You like to go out till late late with your fren go ba.. you got off also dun tell me ba.. As what you say!!

I totally tired now.. If you want to avoid me avoid ba.. You seem like dun like anyone to care for you.. Then you go ahead to do what you like ba!!! Remember that i do what is for your good.. I every time treat people well.. But some people dun treat me well..

Nvm.. I'm talking Rubbish again, Sorry Everyone~ Include YoU!!!!

2006-10-31T03:29:00.000+08:00

Oct 28 2006

Finally the Birthday Party is Over... Haha... Saw lots of my secondary friends~* haha~ For Just that day.. I Spent lots of money for 2-3 weeks!!! Feel like Crying leh.. Must earn BACK those $money$ *haha*

That day all those foods are quite nice.. The dessert is so nice.. oPps forgot to shot those nice food down.. hahaha~* Really enjoy that day... haha~* why am I keep on laughing.. siao liao.. That day heard some story's from someone~* super funny!! After the Party we went to eat beside bugis ( got a lots of restaurants) we went in 1 of it to eat the Hong kong's food.. Dun know call what name.. lolx never go and remember... After that when home liao..

Feel Like BLOGGING AT XANGA~*

hehe when i change tell you all again... haha =P

Oct 30 2006
Today at home.. Never go out.. cook 2 dish for my family to eat.. quite tired now.. keke i will blog again when i have time~* lolz

2006-10-20T02:48:00.000+08:00

This few Days I buY aLots oF things.. AlmoSt spend 1k.. about 700 and above... Feel like Crying now... My $$$$$$ all Fly away.. Feel like dieing now... BeCoz Somebody keep on tell me is nice.. Must buy.. and i buy it.. buy buy buy 2 week i spend so much... Feel like killing myself now... Heartpain... Next few week i cannot buy liao.. If now I gonna die.. sOb sOb~~*

The things I Spend

Clothes & Short - $134 + $24 = $158
Green Dress - $49.90 + Earring $12.90 = $62.80
High Heels - $39.90 + $40
Necklaces - $46.00 + $25.90
Rings - $7.90 + $5.50
My Braces - $150
My Handphone chain - $22.90
Buy Present - $12.90 + $25.40
Small bag & Big Bag - $ 7.90 + $32 = $39.90
Others Things + Eating $300

Haven count properly.. Continue tomorrow. I headache liao... Me Go orhorh zZzZzz liao.. Bye Bye~*

My Shopping Week..

2006-10-15T01:41:00.000+08:00

Monday
At home ba..? keke i also forgot liao.. haha~*

TueSday
When tO Vivo City with DeaR DeaR~*
Walk walk with him here & there.. keke~ When going home~ we saw 3 nice cars!! Race!! haha~*

Wednesday
When to Vivo City tO sHop~*

Thursday
When to Orchard Far EasT & Heeren tO shop~*
To buy my dress..

Friday
When to Bugis Street & Bugis Junction to ShoP~*
Buy a Hand Bags & Earrings

Today (sAturday)
When tO Vivo City tO sHop again with R,C,C~* Most of the sHoP haS oPen liaO.. buT stiLL havE so shops haven open.. I can Say I LOVE [VIVO CITY] ~~<3>
I Brought A Pair of High heels frOm TANGS & A Shirt fRom TOPSHOP

Today we shop at Vivo City almost 9hours.. Scarely man!! Hahaha~ We aRe Crazy Shoppers.. We Shop & Eat.. Wooo.. Today Food Republic open liao.. We Love those foods.. sO nicE... the places look like the old singapore places which sell foods.. we shop till 4 something & we when to eat.. finish eating we when to shop again.. keep on shop.. till we damn tired.. shop everywhere.. looking for heels, dress, and many many things.. so tired till candra ask us to we wanna have a shoulder massage at the Kenko Wellness Spa.. For 10min @ $10.. 1st time have shoulder massage so excited.. becoz i never try b4.. normally is dear dear anyhow press on the shoulder de.. haha~ not so good.. but this is really so relax & enjoy the massage lor.. till we nearly fall asleep.. keke.. Must try.. Is so nice too.. keke..

Vivo City

2006-10-11T04:18:00.000+08:00

VIVO CITY

Yesterday when to HarbourFront - Vivo City walk walk with Dear.. not very much to walk.. becoz some of the shop not fully open yet.. so we walk up to the Skyway to walk.. wooo... Is a beautiful night there.. you all should go there for a walk.. Link of Vivo city.. http://www.vivocity.com.sg/

If can i hope to go there shop & enjoy again.. haha~* yeepee~*

When we on the way come out from the Vivo city carpark to the traffic light we see 1 yellow Porsche.. wooo.. so nice.. Is a girl who drive this car..

After that we heard a loud engine & exhaust sound from behide, so loud till I turn my head from front to back to see.. You know what I see.. 2 difference yellow Lamborghini stop behind the Porsche... wahhhhhhhhhhhhh~~~~ Then the Red light turn Green liao.. Cars go of liao.. Then I saw the Porsche behind us drive very fast to the front..Overtake many cars.. Then the 2 Lamborghini ~ I think is guys bah.. Chase after the porsche... Chase until so near.. lolx.. DAMN FAST LOR!!!!! AND IS DAMN CHIO LOR!!! DAMN COOL LOR!!! AND THE ENGINE SOUND IS DAMN NICE LOR!!!! All the cars behind I think their eyes poke out same as me lor... And the mouth also wahhhhhhhhhhhhh.... Those people in their car.. Keep on look outside their window to see.. But hahaha they already boooooooooooommm till infront dun know where liao... To fast till only few sec to see only.. soB soB never took picture down.. Nevermind.. If got chance still can see de lah.. Just have very less chance only mah.. =P hehehe~* that's it lor.. After that when to bugis to eat.. wahh see another car *Chrysler*

What day is that day?! Hahaha~* Why so many expensive car drive on the roads.. But good, haha i can see many nice cars.. lolx.. hehe thats it.. I gonna go orhorh liao..zZzZzzZzzZz ^~

ByEx ByEz ^-^

I Hate HazE

2006-10-10T01:17:00.000+08:00

I haTe haZe~ haTe haTe haTe!!!

sObsOb~* These few days the haze is bad bad bad. Make me feel so bAd~* headache plus breathing so baD~ haTe hAtE hAtE >.<>
Why the haze so bad that day.. T_T wanna cry liao.. haha~ i just hate it. I'm headache again now.

This few days buy so cute stuffs.. haha love it very much.. sO haPpy.. but aLso heartpain.. becoz $$$ fly away liao.. keke..

Mooncake Festival

2006-10-07T03:26:00.000+08:00

Today Mooncake Festival..

Pictures oF uS lolx =)

lOoK likE i'm bUrninG mY haiR hoR~** mY pinK lantern ^-^

oPpss~ can't see mE~~*

mE & caNdrA~*

frOm leFt (mE, cAndRa, Rui Fen, Wei Jie(candra's cousin) & Cheryl

Cheryl & mE~*

Fen Fen de Self-made Lantern~*

LOVE LAO GONG

2006-10-05T03:51:00.000+08:00

Misunderstand!! haiz~*

LAO GONG i hate you hate you hate you, but I LOVE YOU LOVE YOU LOVE YOU LOVE YOU.. How dare you bluff me, when you know i bluff you.. i hate you leh.. make my heart pain for few days, make me cry for few days.. cry until heart sO pain yOu knOw!!! Cry until both eyes like sotong ball like that.. Can't Slp you know!! Till 6am++ then i zZzzZzz... BAKA BAKA BAKA haTe yOu bUt aLso love yOu so mUch.. miSs yoU sO muCh.. yOu naUghty make iT sO reaL hOr.. hUh!!! make until i thought u want to say byebye to me liao.. but in the end you say out those words make me so ARGH... dun know how to reply liao.. but you hor.. next time dun bluff me ok.. i also dun bluff you anymore liao.. sobsob becoz the feeling is BAD ok!! Bite you to pieces then you know.. why you dun bother to call me.. sO bo xin de.. but i know i also bo xin ok.. ok same same.. you bully me, so i bully you lor... =P neXt time if i find you bo xin i will chop you like garlic like that.. hahaha~* =P

Dun angry with me if you are angry ok.. I not angry with you if you dun bluff me, trust me ok. if i know how's your feeling then that will be good.. must tell me how you feel or what ok.. i only scare you to stress or what.. . =P Actually.. i know what you are doing hor.. kekekeke..

Hurt!!!!

2006-10-03T00:43:00.000+08:00

HurT!!!

My loVe GonE~* i'm Drunk now.. but tell myself to write finish this blog.. My heart is so pain now.. my everywhere is in pain.. My heartbroke into pieces.. My Love for him gone.. Just so easy.. He dun even want to talk to me, call me, say something to me.. sometime i just wanna make him more angry.. but in the end.. he dun even talk to me.. you know how hurt is my heart.. like a knife cut into my heart.. i cry for him.. cry till heart pain.. does he know.. he won't know.. feel like vomiting now.. giddy now.. not much much words can say liao.. just pain in heart... he won't know.. bye..

Exhausted!!!

2006-10-02T04:15:00.000+08:00

Exhausted!!!

I'm tired now.. eyes so pain.. head so giddy.. abit hungry.. now the time is 4.10am.. I wish to sleep.. but my heart & mind like making me awake.. keep on think of many many things.. keep on think.. keep on think.. Really wanna stop thinking.. The more i think i will be more stress & sad.. I will try my best to stop thinking.. Stop Imaging..

I keep on say something to make must myself laugh or my friend to laugh.. abit crazy of me.. really crazy.. weird feeling in heart but speak to make people smile.. Am i my ownself?? Want to make myself sleep now.. really feel like seeing doctor, to get sleeping pills.. To let me sleep well.. I really wish that i can laugh happily from my heart.. but can't.. hahahaha~*

Tomorrow feel like meeting Candra or Ruifen to go eat.. Feel like eat alot of food.. planing what to eat for tomorrow.. Feel like eating many french fries.. hahaha... more than that i wanna eat lots & lots of food down..

mY head iS more and more giddy now.. GaStriC pain noW.. can't write any more.. need to go reSt.. write again in the night time..

ByE ByE~*

End @ 4.29am~^

2006-10-01T00:05:00.000+08:00

Feeling sO boRinG & sian~* taLking to Candra now... feeL sO gOoD wHen i say aLL tHe thinGs ouT.. i'm really a bit tired of saying so much things but he dun even know.. i'm jusT sO tired.. pls stop me for thinking all these.. i'm really tired.. If he really know all thing about me.. will he like that to me.. Even now i miss him, love him also no use.. can't get back the feeling liao.. he had no feeling to me!! His feeling fade... Even i use how much love, time and effort he won't know.. He just feel that i'm naggy girl.. feel that i'm making him stress.. i just want a arm to let me lie on..
A person who concern me when i'm sad, when i'm stress.. not even.. make me more stress.. and in the end saying me make him more stress.. What a damn.. I hate it..

2006-09-30T00:36:00.000+08:00

Sweet words are easy to say,
Sweet things are easy 2 buy,
But sweet people are difficult to find.
Life ends when U stop dreaming,
Hope ends when U stop believing,
Love ends when U stop caring,
Friendship ends when U stop sharing.

So share this with whom ever U consider a friend.

To love without condition,
To talk without intention,
To give without reason,
And to care without expectation
is the heart of a truefriend...

My DisH foR tOdAy!!!!

2006-09-30T00:00:00.000+08:00

^Blue Friday^

My DisH foR tOdAy!!!!

Ladyfinger

Hahaha~* Look like i'm cooking vegetables everyday.. haha~* next time gonna cook others nicE nicE fooD~* =P tOdaY thiS dishes a bit spicy..but is nicE.. hAhA^^ goT eaten finish...
hAhA muSt leaRn tO cooK moRe moRe fooD, DeaR seem like you has very less chance to eat what i cook.. haha.. nvm lah.. when you earn more than 3k.. i will cook for you.. keke.. Just joking.. i will cook for you.. whenever/whatever you want to eat.. just dun laugh or make me shy.. when i'm cooking.. if not the food gonna be bad.. lolx

This is call TRUE LOVE

2006-09-29T22:49:00.000+08:00

This is call TRUE LOVE

An amazing Love Story

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after

her, while he so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the

party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but

due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was

too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please,

let me go home.... suddenly he asked the waiter. "would you please give me

some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."

Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he

put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously; why

you have this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near

the sea, I like playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea,

just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty

coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my

hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there". While

saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.

That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can

tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home,

has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spoke about

her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice

talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story.

They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets

all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was

such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty

coffee!

Then the story was just like every beautiful love story , the princess

married to the prince, then they were living the happy life... And,

every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee e, as she

knew that's the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: "My

dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I

said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so

nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt It

was hard for me to change so I just went ahead.I never thought that could be

the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times

in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to

lie to you for anything..

Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like

the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. But I have had the salty

coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for

anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my

whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you

and have you for my whole life,even though I have to drink the salty coffee

again".

Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone asked her: what's

the taste of salty coffee?

It's sweet. She replied.

Love is not 2 forget but 2 forgive, not 2 c but 2 understand, not 2 hear

but 2 listen, not 2 let go but 2 HOLD ON !!!!

Don't ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one

you like will leave you for the one they love.

Find a guy, who calls you beautiful instead of hot.

Who calls you back when you hang up on him.

Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.

Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.

Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he

cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.

Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's

her."

If u read this U have to repost it or you will have bad luck for

the rest of your life!!!!!!!............

Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they like you.

Something good will happen to you at approx 1:42pm tomorrow, it

could be anywhere.

So get ready for the biggest shock of your life.

If you break this chain, you will be cursed with relationship

problems for the most important time of your life.

Send this to 15 people in 15 minutes to carry on the chain...and

spare you the emotional stress.

Sick Sick & My Food

2006-09-28T00:46:00.000+08:00

SicK SicK!!

Haha, i'm here again...abit tired... dun know why got FLU,headache sia.. giddy.. sian some more gastric pain.. argh... feel like knocking the wall and faint to sleep** haha talking rubbish..

Today cook 1 vegetable haha my long beans + carrot + ikan bilis..

Those Food Down here is past few days i cook de.. keke

sweet potato leaves and dry small prawns..

FiSheSsss

Keke trying to cook more food.. haha but sometime forgot to snap some photo.. becoz to hungry.. keke~* hmm next time cook more then snap it for you all too see.. hmm but i feel my food taste nice but dun look nice~~* in the picture look so werid.. haha

haha feel so sLeepy~ but still must wait till my buddy to call me & also my DaR DaR tO caLL keke~* gOOd niGht eVerYbodY... *mUaCkz*

Zodiac Love Match

2006-09-27T18:07:00.000+08:00

Zodiac Love Match

1st Sign 2nd Sign
Gemini Gemini

A pretty good match! Gemini's love to learn. The love to learn from books, culture, the arts and each other. They will provide each other with lots of great conversation and will always find new topics to discuss. They love going out and meeting new people. Together, they will make the perfect social companions for any event. There will never be a power struggle between the two Gemini's about where to go and what to do. As long as they are out and about they will be having fun. These two will most likely build an extensive library together as they share a love of knowledge and higher learning. Because they are in accord on intellectual matters, they will not only be perfect lovers for each other, but they will also be best friends and companions. They will always be on the same level and will understand where the other is coming from. One problem which could arise is the fact that they are both moody and have different personalities. When one wants to be in that childish and goofy mood, the other should be in the more mature mode to deal with this personality and help play. If both Gemini's are in that playful personality mode, there could be fights and bickering. But even if the two Gemini's fight, their fights will not last for long. They love each other too much. In certain Gemini-Gemini relationships, depending on what kind of Gemini they are (higher or lower), the fighting could escalate and get way out of control. This would turn ugly very quickly. They would have to both learn how to control their tempers. If one of the Gemini is a lower Gemini, the other Gemini would have to watch him/her for lying and being deceptive. The sex life will be fantastic. The Geminis both know exactly what they like and they are both on the same level. They are in perfect tune with each other's sexual needs and desires. This relationship could work great and has a real chance. But look out for any crazy fighting. This relationship could be disastrous if there is a lack of strength or honesty on either side.

( Haahaahaa.. abit stupid hor gemini & gemini together will become like that.. anyway is just a test.. )

My Love TesTs

2006-09-27T17:56:00.000+08:00

My LovE tEsT rEsuLts

Your score is 113 (out of 160).

SCORE BETWEEN 100 AND 129:

We can't all be perfect! You have a strong relationship together but it could be better. If you work hard to resolve and differences and try to make the relationship a more loving one, you could easily make sure that you will always stay together, even through the tough times. One way to do this is through lots of research. If you are serious about making your relationship work then take the initiative and read up on relationship books and manuals. You will need to devote time and energy to this relationship. Try and identify where the relationship is lacking. If you know exactly what your partner needs (time, space, love and affection) then give it to him/her. You are going to have to try and take an active stance with any arguing as well. Instead of trying to fight for what you want, be passive. I am not telling you to give in, but stop fighting. Try and compromise. Instead of fighting and using words that might hurt, give affection and words of love and praise. Start telling your beloved how much you adore, love, cherish and worship him/her. Everyone needs to hear this from time to time. Give him/her lots of praise, pats on the back and positive encouragement, especially where the relationship is concerned. This will only work to cause him/her to start pleasing you more and more, so he/she can get more praise. Instead of nagging, try and compliment him/her on something else that he/she did. Your relationship will flourish and work out for the best.

Went tO JB

2006-09-24T23:14:00.000+08:00

Saturday
23 Sep 2006

Yesterday when to JB with dear dear.. reach there about 3.30pm.. then he went to pump petrol.. after that we when to eat PIZZA.. haha YummY~* niCe niCe~~ buT dEaR dEaR~* must eat more more more leh~* everytime eat abit only.. The food you eat equally with me.. You should eat more than me leh!!!! hehe...

After that we when to City Square.. shop shop.. never buy anything.. jUst buY bubble gumS!!!! but damn lor.. came back s'pore something happen.. damn sian lor~~ argh... sCare untiL my heaRt drop out.. alamak hate hate hate... make me sweat!! lolx

After that reach Singpore~ we went to yishun void deck 736 there eat maggie mee~ haha becoz i just feel like eating maggie mee* hAhAhA~~* then sit there talk talk talk.. till about 11pm dear dear send me home liao.. coz he gonna work morning shift next morning..
Hmm that's all for my saturday... kekeke ^.^v

Today

keke nothing to write leh~ hmm tired wor~ just hope that tomorrow faster reach can meet DEAR DEAR.. Feel like going swimming tomorrow.. haha.. opPs i dun know how to swim wor.. scare.. got drown b4.. sO pai seh!!! Heng that time no people near by the pool.. no people see the safeguard save me... sObsOb.. the saFeguard still ask me.. drink alots of 100plus right... haha.. means the pool water lor!! i just stay in the water and walk here and there.. haha... =P
cry sia~~ soBsoB >.<

2006-09-22T02:34:00.000+08:00

There are so many stars in the sky..

but only some are radiant enough,

to capture your attention..

Among those you choose to ignore,

is the one star that is willing,

to continue shining for you

even if you glance is somewhere else..

2006-09-15T03:52:00.000+08:00

DBSK One MV

ENERGY - AI SHI KONG

DBSK - Triangle

My Little PrinCeSs

DBSK - Tomorrow

HaPpY Day

2006-09-14T23:30:00.000+08:00

13 SeP 2006 ~Yesterday When to Marina Square & Esplanade..
Took those photo while i'm sitting on the bike..

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TODAY~*
Help my mummy wash floor, damn oily loR.. wash with my aunt.. headache~~ clean till i tired.. then help my Grandmother to cook.. haha.. sianz just now gastric pain.. pain till wanna boxs people..lolx haha.. not lah.. won't beat people.. juSt super pain lah.. dun knOw why this few days always pain.. haiz..

Hmm, Today Dear wOrk till 8pm.. so gOod.. new job work 8 hours.. nice or nOt? Sure better then last time job right? but paid will be least right? haha bo bian.. sO good after work still go play billard will MR Elson.. I only can stay at home.. damn boring sia... Eat Work sLeeP Eat Work sLeeP,,

Me SleePly nOw gOinG tO mY Baobeii bEd liaO..
bYe bYe~*
ThAts aLL fOr ToDaY!!

hOpE EvErYbOdY wiLL livE happily tiLL tHeY oLd and stiLL lovE eaCh oThErs.. keke~~*

end @ 3.22am

A KOREAN GUY PLAYING CANON WITH GUITAR

2006-09-14T23:25:00.000+08:00

A KOREAN GUY PLAYING CANON WITH GUITAR

Damn COOL LOR.... LOVE IT SO MUCH <3

SuNdAy

2006-09-11T02:30:00.000+08:00

Sunday - ExPo

Today, when to Expo with Dear Dear~* +*wah piang*+ There abit Jam wor.. plus the day is damn OMG - Half side of singapore rain another half side Sunshine... WTH... sO hoT!!! till you can put broke a egg on the floor and can be cooked!!

hAhAhA... Actually we went there is to see car show.. but in the end see 5 car only outside the expO but in the end we see Food Feast~* AnD the interior design of house.. lolx
1st we went in to the FOOD FEAST... and see see got what food to eat.. buy some food to eat liao.. find there nothing to walk liao.. then we walk into the 2nd Expo which is the interior design de.. Still got promo for wedding package!!! Those people keep on ask us to see their picture or what what what.. omg pai seh(shy) loR.. Say what, want outdoor package to go korean for shooting wedding photo... for $3888. (-_-)" $$

After hearing what they say and see those wedding photo.. I find that those photos not very nice lor!! hahaha.. not the person not nice.. Is the places not nice plus going so places like mrt to take photo.. raffles city.. bush of dead grass to shoot photos.. plus the album book also not nice.. but the person still keep on saying.. (-,-)""" OMG after that i tell them nvm.. is ok.. i dun need it yet.. then say is a lifetime promo.. then i say i really dun need it now.. then he say nvm.. next time free then come see see again.. (*o*)"

After that dear dear ask me want to go where.. I also dun know.. then he think of rent car from my fren rented car company.. sO we when to whampo west there to see whether can rent.. In the end i reach there see nothing leh.. can't find the shop.. haha.. then i call my this fren WEI XIANG lor.. call once nobody listen.. call twice.. he listen~~

Wei xiang ~ heLLo.. (sound like just wake up)

Me ~ you just wake up arr?

Wei xiang ~ Yah..

Me ~ You Shop leh.. I cannot find..

Wei xiang ~ you at where?

Me ~ At the whampoo west there lah..

Wei xiang ~ Today Sunday leh.. Never open shop..

Me ~ HUH!!! -_-" ermmm.. ( I super sian liao)

Wei xiang ~ you say monday then want the car..

Me ~ Suddenly want to rent today mah..

In the end THE SUPER KIND ({ MR CHUA WEI XIANG }) really come to his shop to do documents for the car... Really THANK YOU LEH... hAhA..

After taking the car...
Dear ask me where i want to go.. hmm actually want to go COZY BAY at kallang there.. but go wrong road.. I never say early so i say drive to East Coast Park there to eat.. haha buy 4 Barbecue Chicken Wing and 10 chicken satay.. keke nice nice.. yummy.. hmm but not enough.. actually wanna buy other things to eat.. but dear dear full liao.. sObsOb now 3.00am.. I'm hungry sia... hoPe sOmeOne can buy Some Food for me tO eaT.. Gastric pain now.. sian~ EyEs like marshimaro liao~ gOing tO sleep sOon.. eyes closing.. haha.. (-.-)zZz

I think Dar Dar~* now is enjoying with his fren ba.. bo xin de.. never call me.. got car liao.. can drive many people go enjoy liao hor... then drive me home to see wall.. sad leh.. hahaha... kidding lah.. Me also tired liao yestersay 5am then slp.. 8am wake up.. Robot sia.. Today i think 3.30am slp ba then later 8.00am wake up again.. you see.. i meet you till i less sleep leh.. must buy present for me hor.. hahaha (^-^) =P

Me gO orhorh(sleep) liao... byebye~*

little angelprincess go sleep liao =P vomit @#$%^&

DeaR

2006-09-08T22:30:00.000+08:00

7 Sep 2006

DeaR DeaR PaSs LoR

Yes.. DeaR DeaR PaSS hiS Traffic Police Driving TesT liao... WoOoOooo.... So haPpY leh... yOu KnoW i haVe bEEn WaiTinG fOr sO lonG.. hAhA wheN cAn drivE caR gO RoundinG.. keke~ hmmm... hAhA dEaR waitinG fOr yOu tO drIve mE aLL aRounD sInGaPorE..

8 Sep 2006
Stay At hoMe guai guai loR.. anD cook.. haha..

EnErGy

2006-09-06T03:02:00.000+08:00

EnErGy

Advertise NeW alBum~

LovE KunDa sO mUch~* hAhA~*

KunDa DanCinG

KunDa LovE sTorY~*

2006-09-03T23:52:00.000+08:00

JaRvIs PHOTOS

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My nEw PuRse & Big OniOn

2006-08-26T23:45:00.000+08:00

My nEw PuRse & Big OniOn

Keke~ That day dear dear off and we when to far east to shop shop.. I bought it there.. lolx see too many cute purse.. My eyes popping out..

Biggest ONION i had see b4.. about my hand so big!! Dun know how they plant de... hahaha~* If i can plant a MANGO or STRAWBERRY till so big.. I think i will finish it... keke.. just joking~~~ It can't be ba??!!! lolx

2006-08-05T02:56:00.000+08:00

CuTe JarVis~*

CutE cUtE JaRviS~*

Yawnzz.. Today I find myself becoming a godmother already.. haha.. went to my aunt house to look after my [1 year old+] nephew(Jarvis). Wahh, is so tiring man. I early morning 9++ reach my aunt house, then play with Jarvis.. He almost run the whole house here and there.. and i keep follow him here and there to keep him from falling.. OMG.. He is so energetic then me..

After that my uncle wanting to cook (fried bee hoon).. But my mind is thinking does he know how to cook??!!!! Because we have try before his cook.. And the food is {!!!!!!!!} Aiya.. I think you all should know what i'm going to say.. =\ My uncle will just throw every in and fry that it.. you know how he cooks the soup?! A carrot cut into 4 pieces and throw into the pot and put salt.. so i'm just scare that if he cook.. will there be anybody eating it..

So in the end i when to prepare those food to cook.. cut garlic, cut vegetable, cut meat, seasoning the meat and soak my bee hoon. I cook and cook and cook.. so tired.. plus i still must feed my little nephew.. he keep run here and there and i keep follow him to feed him.. jump here, dance there.. any pattern also have.. Bath for him.. make milk for him.. play with him.. you say leh.. the whole day i had been looking after him till night. It was so tiring.. and the time now is 2:33am.. keep closing my eyes now.. Plus today he will be coming over to my house in the morning.. (-,-)" tired..

Because he is cute and i like him.. so cute that will make you laugh till stomach ache.. but when he is bad mood or you dun give him things that he like.. He will CRY!! OMG i hate baby cry because i'm scare.. so i sayang him lor.. but if he really naughty i will scold him.. and he know i'm scolding him.. and he cry again.. Alamak!!!
Really find that a mummy is so WEI DA.. Must do everything, ever days.. (-.-)"

+:~ SweeT CutiE cHoCoLaTe ~:+

2006-07-28T20:31:00.000+08:00

+:*~ SweeT CutiE cHoCoLaTe ~*:+

LooK sO cUte & nIcE~~* YummY~~

Fall Sick~~*

2006-07-28T00:23:00.000+08:00

Fall Sick~~*

What a Bad day.. yesterday morning woke up find myself flu.. Keep on sniff & AH CHEW~ After that water start to drip from my noses till night.. eat some running nose tablet.. till today wake up nose jam!!! *Hao Xin Ku*

Then my throat start to pain~ *heng* still got abit voice~ now just find my body temperature getting a bit high.. what to do?? Just can swallow whatever medicine that i have.. To save money dun go see doctor.. Am i crazy?!
Hmm just find abit dizzy~ hmm but i super pro liao lor... still can come here to do my blogging~~ lolx
keke~ hmmm.. sometime dun know what's my brain thinking just tired of thinking.. Just know that if i'm sad, i must cry out.. if not the another day i gonna sick~ So u all should know that i'm a cry baby ba... so next time just let me cry out baa... more then after that i fall sick.. becoz of putting to much things in my heart.. =)

Gonna end now~ going to my beddy to orhorh~ byebye~*

My LovE gOne aBit tiReD~~

2006-07-26T03:48:00.000+08:00

My LovE gOne aBit tiReD~~

I'm so boring, something saddness in my heart and on my mind.. will these things or problems make me more and more stress? I don want, i'm so stress now.. what should i do?

Will someone give me some advise? I think there is also no use.. *sigh*

Can someone reads my mind now.. Can someone know how's my feeling now.. Lonely, Empty, Tiresome.. what can i do? Argh... I need ur care~ concern~ when i did my concern to you, does you feel it?? Where is mine? I need it too.. your feeling to me is no trust, you dun trust me at all.. you just blame on me~ what can i say? I dun want to explain so much.. since there is no use.. To me i sometime really dun know what i am to you.. Is a glass or water? you see nothing in me, you just dun feel anything.. just dun bother to think problem, care those problem.. and dun bother to care me or call me.. isszit my wrong?? You think properly!! If not i would rather we dun continue to be together..

Communication problem + no trust + all concern are gone.. if you really want us to be apart.. I will forced myself to agree with you.. even if i damn sad.. damn hurt.. cry everyday.. till my heartbreak.. i will agree de.. If i can't let my love to love me anymore.. i will let him go.. I dun wan to keep a person heart, which is already gone or fade~ maybe our relationship will fade 1 day.. this is what i think.. becoz i dun want a fade relationship to continue.. that's it.. *gone*

~*hurting is always in my heart*~

Something abt feelings.....

2006-07-20T03:47:00.000+08:00

SoMetHinG abt FeeLings.....

Have you ever loved someone and they had
absolutely no idea whatsoever? Or fell for you're
best friend in the entire world, and then sat around
and watched him/her fall for someone else?

Have you ever denied your feelings for someone
because your fear of rejection was too hard to
handle? We tell lies when we are afraid.... afraid of
what we don't know, afraid of what others will think,
afraid of what will be found out about us. But every
time we tell a lie...the thing we fear grows stronger.

Have you ever noticed that the worst way to miss
someone is when they are right beside you and
yet you can never have them...when the moment
you can't feel them under your fingertips you miss
them?

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most;
saying something and wishing you had not, or
saying nothing and wishing you had? I guess the
most important things are the hardest things to
say. Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.
If you do, they might break your heart ... but if you
don't, you might break theirs.

Have you ever decided not to become a couple
because you were so afraid of losing what you
already had with that person? Your heart decides
who it likes and who it doesn't. You can't tell your
heart what to do. It does it on its own... when you
least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.

Have you ever wanted to love someone with
everything you had, but that other person was too
afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled
because we are too afraid to care too much...for
fear that the other person does not care as much,
or that all Life is all about risks and it requires you
to jump. Don't be a person who has to look back
and wonder what they would have, or could have
had.

The Dos And Don’ts For All Zodiac Signs

2006-07-20T03:40:00.000+08:00

The Dos And Don’ts For All Zodiac Signs

Aries (Mar 21 - Apr 19)

DO’S

Aries are naturally active and vibrant people and
they tend to like such
people too. You will have to increase your pace to
be in step with them.
They like and appreciate frank and straightforward
persons. With them you
can be your true self (but don’t try your luck being
over frank-they are
volatile). If you are in love with an Arien, then you
have to show your
enthusiasm in all their activities (you can always
yawn later!).

DON’TS

Do not tell an Aries that s/he may be wrong. Any
such statement may stir a
storm in a teacup. Aries are very faithful and
passionate lo vers. Do not
give air to the smouldering fire within them by
making them jealous. No flirtation or fooling around
with others in their presence unless of course
you wish to write your death wish (you will be
granted!).

Taurus (Apr 20 - May 20)

DO’S

Stability and dependability characterise Taurus.
They like people who can
blend and grow with them. If you have a Taurus
partner you should
appreciate all things bright and beautiful. They
have an inherent artistic
sense and are fond of colour and music. Judge life
with them from a purely
materialistic point of view. Enjoy everything
luxurious that money can
provide. Enjoy good food (better if you can cook to
please them) and good
drinks with them.

DON’TS

Taurus do not loose their temper easily (in fact you
may spend the whole
life with them and still no spark) but you should not
push your luck too
much. Being unreasonable or aggressive with them
may get you into
trouble.

Do not press him/her into a corner, and if you do,
be prepared for a
violent rage. Taurus is capable of violent outbursts
though such an event
is is very rare occasions. They can be suffocating
when they are possessive
about you.

Gemini (May 21 - June 21)

DO’S

Gemini is a highly intellectual and versatile person.
If you have a Gemini
partner you have to match your wits with his/her
wits to keep the zing in
the relationship. They want to be mentally
stimulated so you have to be
good at conversing. Your sense of humour will get
you a permanent
residence in the heart of a Gemini. Be more
communicative with them, and if you are good at
this, you will never know how hours pass by
holding each other’s hand.

DON’TS

Gemini’s like to do many things at the same time,
so if unfortunately you
are the type who is looking for stability yo u may
get disappointed. Do
not hold back a Gemini or you may lose him/her,
as they are restless and need
change in life constantly. You should try to adopt
yourself with the
ever-changing Gemini. Orthodox or conservative
old fashion ideas are no-no
in their dictionary. Change with the ever-changing
Gemini and do not flow
against the current.

Cancer (Jun22 - July 22)

DO’S

Try to adapt yourself with the changing moods of
the Cancer. At one moment
they may be laughing and enjoying and in another
they may sulk. You may
have to adjust with the moody and sensitive
Cancer. They are like the
tides in the ocean, always fluctuating. Cancerians
love food, so if you know how to cook and can be
poetic and romantic (added Bonus) then you know
the way to their heart.

DON’TS

Cancerians are very sensitive people and can get
easily hurt. So do not
play with their emotions and sentiments. The y are
like tides that can
sweep you along. They form emotional bonds with
even inanimate things, so do not ask them to
discard old caps or souvenirs. Such things hold
special
meaning to them. You have to realise that the
crabs have a soft heart and are vulnerable. Do not
contradict their tested line of thought and action, it
would only lead to confusion.

Leo (Sep 22 - Oct23)

DO’S

If you have Leo partner respect him and his
majestic manners. Accept the
advice of Leo, the lion, as he is the king of the
jungle. It is the sign
of a showman, so if your partner does everything in
grand style enjoy it.
They fall easily for flattery and want to be centre of
attraction of all eyes
(sometimes they can be quiet theatrical too).

DON’TS

Never ever hurt the ego of a Leo. Pride, ego and
vanity are some of the
bags Leo’s always carry with them. Do not touch
these bags. An
authoritative Leo is even more difficult to handle in
such circumstances.
Leo is a sunny sign so they do not like people who
are gloomy or
depressed.

Even if you are crying at heart keep a sunny smile
on your lips and then
let the lion take charge and remove all worries from
your life.

Virgo (Aug 23 - Sept22)

DO’S

Virgo’s are very methodical and have a great sense
of duty. However, they
are blind to their own faults. So, if you have a Virgo
partner emphasise
more on their qualities. Take keen interest in what
they are doing and you
will realise that they will go out of their way to help
you. Do rely and
appreciate their mental powers rather than their
physical powers. They can
turn even an unsuccessful venture into a success.

DON’TS

Do not push a Virgo into limelight or on the centre
stage unless of course
they do so on their own. They are shy and
reserved by nature an d do not
like to be the cynosure of all eyes. Virgo’s have
secrets that they would
not like to bring out in the open. So, even if you
have the key to their
secret skeleton-closet, hide it; do not even admit
that you know anything
about it. Virgo, the virgins, do not want to tarnish
their public image.

Libra (Sep 22 - Oct 23)

DO’S

Librans need peace and harmony in all their
relationships, so help them
maintain that. Venus, the ruling planet, gives them
beauty and they have
weakness for people who can compliment them
about their beauty (you will
not have to make an effort to do that anyway). You
can help Libra seek
union and partnership in life. If you have a Libra
partner you can be sure
to share beautiful and pleasurable moments
together.

DON’TS

Libra is kind and gentle soul but very
argumentative. Hence, do not start
an argument or discussion unless, of course, you
are free and do not know
how to pass your time. They hate to lose and most
probably during an
argument may change sides too (remember scales
can tilt) and still
continue arguing from the other side. Do not push
your Libra partner into making decisions. They will
keep weighing pros and cons and may still not be
able to come to any decision. Have patience!

Scorpio (Oct 23 - Novr 21)

DO’S

Scorpio’s are full of passion and zest for life. They
have tremendous
drive that can involve you too. Tune in to their
wavelength and you can enjoy
the harmony and music of life with them. Scorpio’s
are loyal and never forget
a kind deed done by you. If you want to enjoy life
with your Scorpio lover,
share their passion and intensity and you will be
fascinated by how
beautiful life can be with them.

DON’TS

Scorpio’s are very passionate and intense but they
are also fiercely
possessive and would like to possess your mind,
body and soul. Do not let
seeds of jealousy grow in them because then you
may have to suffer agonies
of jealousy and discontentment in life. Scorpio’s
have explosive tempers ?
be careful how you handle them. They never let
anyone know what is going
on in their mind till they strike and you may be
caught unawares. Do not
flirt around in the presence of your Scorpio lover.

Sagittarius (Nov 22 - Dec 21)

DO’S

Sagittarius is basically a happy go lucky kind. You
can enjoy with them
their zest and enthusiasm for life. They bubble with
excitement. And if
you share the same interests and hobbies, life can
be great fun together. They are frank and
straightforward so if you want some truthful opinion
about
anything or anyone ? go to them. Be optimistic as
they are and view life
as glass half full.

DON’TS

Sagittarius is fiercely independent and cannot
tolerate restriction.
Hence, do not try to hold them back in life. Let
them enjoy their freedom because if you hold any
special place in their heart they will always come
back for you. Do not feel irritated by the
exaggeration in their speech. They may go on and
on, talking about certain things that may not even
interest you, but its their way of trying to
communicate with you. They are basically frank
and outspoken (to the point of being rude), so do
not feel offended by
their talks.

Capricorn (Dec 22 - Jan 20)

DO’S

Capricornians are strong and dependable. Hence,
if you want to put your
money on anyone it is of course this zodiac sign.
They are practical and
conservative in their outlook and they expect you
to blend in their
colour. They set certain standards for themselves
in their life and they will
always try to maintain those standards. For them
social status and image
is very important in life.

DON’TS

Do not expect a Capricorn mate to open his/her
heart and pour everything
to you. They are very secretive and reserved
people. They are very thorough
in all their affairs and hate any kind of sloppiness.
People born under this
zodiac are very tight-fisted and economical. Do not
expect lavish gifts
from them and if they do give you any gift (that is
very rare) it will
have some practical use (no romance please) but
that does not mean you will be deprived of
anything; on the contrary you will be well provided.

Aquarius (Jan 21 - Feb 21)

DO’S

Aquarius are friendly and fascinating people. They
have in-depth knowledge
about various subjects and you can converse with
them for hours without
getting bored. They are capable of giving a lot of
love that can be
amazing. They have a very broad outlook of life and
you can relax in their
presence. They will always welcome your ideas
and actions about
humanitarian causes. To keep an Aquarius lover
interested you must possess
that mysterious and intriguing quality. Once
hooked they will always be
very faithful to you.

DON’TS

Do not expect or plan a normal, simple and
predictable life with an
Aquarius partner. Aquarians are totally
unpredictable. They can go to any
direction without giving any advance notice. They
are basically very
restless and get bored easily. Though they are
very friendly, do not
expect them to reveal their inner most feelings to
you (they never will). They
can be detached and impersonal, which may seem
strange to others.

Pisces (Feb 22 - Mar 21)

DO’S

Pisceans are sensitive and charming. If you are
looking for someone who is
understanding and can understand your feelings
then you have met the right
person. You should appreciate their feelings too,
as in your time of need
they are sure to help you. Pisces have a keenly
developed sixth sense and
have great intuitive powers. Their hunches may
usually be right on mark.
But they can exhaust their physical and mental
energies. They are born
dreamers and you can build palaces with your
dream lover (only in real
life it may become a little difficult preposition).

DON’TS

Pisces are dreamers and you should not expect
them to have worldly
ambitions. They are not materialistic in nature. It is
not that they like
living below the poverty line but they have no
earnest desire to
accumulate wealth. They are very sensitive and
you have to be always careful about their feelings.
The fishes are capable of drowning you in their
tears (even men born under this sign).

What is PRESENCE?

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What is PRESENCE?

Presence is when u are sad, she/he is there
Presence is when u are happy, she/he is there
Presence is when u are hurt, she/he is there

Presence is when u need someone to tok to,
she/he is there
Presence is when u need someone to comfort u,
she/he is there
Presence is when u need someone to advise u,
she/he is there
And Most important of all, when u need a shoulder
to cry on, she/he is there.

Conclusion of presence is "BE THERE"

Great Secrets

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Great Secrets

The first secret - the power of thought.

Love begins with our thoughts.
We become what we think about.
Loving thoughts create loving experiences and
loving relationships.
Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts
about others and ourselves.
If we want to love someone, we need to consider
his or her needs and desires.
Thinking about your ideal partner will help you
recognize her when you meet him/her.

The second secret - the power of respect.

You cannot love anyone or anything unless you
first respect them.
The first person you need to respect is yourself.
To begin to gain self-respect, ask yourself.
What do I respect about myself?
To gain respect for others, even those you may
dislike, ask yourself.
What do I respect about them?

The third secret - the power of giving.

If you want to receive love, all you have to do is
give it!
The more love you give, the more you will receive.
To love is to give of yourself, freely and
unconditionally.
Practice random acts of kindness.
Before committing to a relationship ask not what
the other person will be able to give to you, but
rather what will you be able to give them.
The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving
relationship is to always focus on what you can
give instead of what you can take.

The fourth secret - the power of friendship.

To find a true love, you must first find a true friend.
Love does not consist of gazing into each other's
eyes, but rather looking outward together in the
same direction.
To love someone completely you must love him or
her for who they are and not what they look like.
Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds
grow.
If you want to bring love into a relationship, you
must first bring friendship.

The fifth secret - the power of touch.

Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of
love, breaking down barriers and bonding
relationships.
Touch changes our physical and emotional states
and makes us more receptive to love.

The sixth secret - the power of letting go.

If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to
you, it's yours,if it doesn't, it never was.
Even in a loving relationship, people need their own
space.
If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to
forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances.
Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices,
egos and conditions.
Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no
power over me - today Is the beginning of a new life.

The seventh secret - the power of communication.

When we learn to communicate openly and
honestly,life changes.
To love someone is to communicate with them.
Let the people you love know that you love them
and appreciate them.
Never be afraid to say those three magic words: I
Love You.
Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone.
Always leave someone you love with a loving word -
it could be the last time you see him or her.
If you were about to die but could make telephone
calls to the people you loved, who would you call,
what would you say and why are you waiting?

The eighth secret - the power of commitment.

If you want to have love in abundance, you must be
committed to it, And that commitment will be
reflected in your thoughts and actions.
Commitment is the true test of love.
If you want to have loving relationships, you must
be committed to loving relationships.
When you are committed to someone or
something, quitting is never an option.
Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship
from a strong one.

The ninth secret - the power of passion.

Passion ignites love and keeps it alive.
Lasting passion does not come through physical
attraction alone;
It comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm,
interest and excitement.
Passion can be recreated by recreating past
experiences.
When you felt passionate spontanity and surprises
produce passion.
The Essence of love and happiness are the same;
all we need to do is To live each day with passion.

The tenth secret - the power of trust.

Trust is essential in all loving relationships.
Without it one person becomes suspicious,
anxious and fearful and the Other person feels
trapped and emotionally suffocated.
You cannot love someone completely unless you
trust him or her
completely.
Act as if your relationship with the person you love
will never end.
One of the ways you can tell whether a person is
right for you is to ask yourself.
Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?
If the answer is no, think carefully before making a
commitment

ALL U NEED IN A "PERFECT" GUY

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ALL U NEED IN A "PERFECT" GUY

1. Know how to make you smile when you are
down.

2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always
notice.

3. Stick up for you, but still respects your
independence.

4. Give you the remote control during the game.

5. Come up behind you and put his arms around
you.

6. Play with your hair.

7. His hands always find yours.

8. Be cute when he really wants something.

9. Offer you plenty of massages.

10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.

11. Never run out of love.

12. Be funny, but know how to be serious.

13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be
serious.

14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.

15. React so cutely when you hit him and it
actually hurts.

16. Smile a lot.

17. Plans a romantic date full of cheesy things he
wouldn't normally like to do, just because he
knows it means a lot to you.

18. Appreciate you.

19. Help others out.

20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1.

21. Always gives you a peck on the cheek when
you depart from each others company,even when
his friends are watching.

22. Sing, even if he can't.

23. Have a creative sense of humor.

24. Stare at you.

25. Call for no reason.

26. Quit smoking, chewing, drinking, or drugs -
just because he loves u that much to quit it.

~Guardian Angel~

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*~Guardian Angel~*

是否记得守护天使的游戏
从我抽到你的卡片起
不再是一个人的回忆
或许未来有快乐也有艰辛
我会把你紧抱在怀里
永远不让你为爱哭泣
如果天空只剩最后
一颗闪烁的星
我会让它为你照亮孤寂
让幸福为你指引~
总有一天你会看到
Guardian Angel 降临
那是我的心一直在守护着你
天使它一定能够~感应~
如果天空只剩最后
一颗闪烁的星
我会让它为你照亮孤寂
　让幸福为你指引~
　总有一天你会看到
　 Guardian Angel 降临
　那是我的心一直在守护着你
　天使它一定能够~感应~

5 GOLDEN RULES FOR FINDING YOUR LIFE PARTNER

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5 GOLDEN RULES FOR FINDING YOUR LIFE PARTNER

A relationship coach lays out his 5 golden rules for
evaluating the prospects of long-term success.

When it comes to making the decision about
choosing a life partner,no one wants to make a
mistake. Yet,with a divorce rate of close to 50
percent,it appears that many are making serious
mistakes in their approach to finding Mr/Ms Right!

If you ask most couples who are engaged why
they're getting married,they'll say: "We're in love." I
believe this is the #1 mistake people make when
they date.

Choosing a life partner should never be based on
love (alone).

Though this may sound not politically correct,
there's a profound truth here. Love (alone) is not
the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the
result of a good marriage. When the other
ingredients are right, then the love will come.

Let me say it again: You can't build a lifetime
relationship on love alone. You need a lot more.

Here are five questions you must ask yourself if
you're serious about finding and keeping a life
partner.

QUESTION #1:
Do we share a common life purpose?
Why is this so important?
Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30
years, that's a long time to live with someone.

What do you plan to do with each other all that
time? Travel, eat and jog together? You need to
share something deeper and more meaningful. You
need a common life purpose.

Two things can happen in a marriage. You can
grow together, or you can grow apart. 50 percent of
the people out there are growing apart.

To make a marriage work, you need to know what
you want out of life - bottom line - and marry
someone who wants the same thing.

QUESTION #2:
Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts
with this person?
This question goes to the core of the quality of
your relationship.

Feeling safe means you can communicate openly
with this person. The basis of having good
communication is trust! i.e. trust that I won't
get "punished" or hurt for expressing my honest
thoughts and feelings.

A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as
someone with whom you feel afraid to express
your thoughts and feelings.

Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure
you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan
to marry.

QUESTION #3:
Is he/she a mensch?

A mensch is someone who is a refined and
sensitive person.

How can you test? Here are some suggestions.
1. Do they work on personal growth on a regular
basis?
2. Are they serious about improving themselves?

A teacher of mine defines a good person
as "someone who is always striving to be good
and do the right thing".

"So, ask about your significant other: What do
they do with their time? Is this person
materialistic?"

Usually, a materialistic person is not someone
whose top priority is character refinement.

There are essentially two types of people in the
world: People who are dedicated to personal
growth and people who are dedicated to seeking
comfort.

Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable
will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right
thing.

You need to know that before walking down the
aisle.

QUESTION #4:
How does he/she treat other people?
The one most important thing that makes any
relationship work is the ability to give. By giving,
we mean the ability to give another person
pleasure.

Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure
to others or are they wrapped up in themselves
and self-absorbed?

To measure this, think about the following:

1. How do they treat people whom they do not
have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi
drivers, etc?

2. How do they treat parents and siblings? Do they
have gratitude and appreciation?

3. Do they show respect? If they don't have
gratitude for the people who have given them
everything, you cannot expect that they'll have
gratitude for you - who can't do nearly as much for
them!

4. Do they gossip and speak badly about others?
Someone who gossips cannot be someone who
loves others. You can be sure that someone who
treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly
as well.

QUESTION #5:
Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this
person after we're married?
Too many people make the mistake of marrying
someone with the intention of trying to "improve"
them after they're married.

As a colleague of mine puts it, "You can probably
expect someone to change after marriage ... for
the worse!"

If you cannot fully accept this person the way they
are now, then you are not ready to marry them.

In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult
and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little
more with your head and less with your heart.

It pays to be as objective as possible when you
are dating, to be sure to ask questions that will
help you get to the key issues.

Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you
wake up with a ring on your finger, you don't want
to find yourself in trouble because you didn't do
your homework.

HOW WILL I KNOW IF I'VE MET THE PERSON I
SHOULD MARRY?

The choice of a marriage partner should not be
based on "I get a warm, wonderful feeling whenever
we're together and I want to have that warm
wonderful feeling forever, so let's go get married".

Feelings, as we have discussed, have no logic on
their own. They need to be acknowledged, of
course, but they need considerable assistance
from your brain.

Marriage means choosing the person you will
spend the rest of your life with. This, as you may
have guessed, is a very long time to spend with
one person. This person will live with you, eat
meals with you, sleep with you and go on vacation
with you. More important yet, this person will
share your children.

You need to choose wisely. The decision should
not be made based on feelings alone. You need to
ask yourself some tough questions. The decisions
have to be made on solid considerations.

Will this person be a good partner? Is she mature
enough to put her own selfish desires aside to look
out for what is best for the family?

Is he prepared to be a good provider? What is his
track record? Is he responsible enough to get a
good job and keep it?

Will this person be a good parent? Can you stand
the thought of your children turning out exactly like
this person? They will, you know.Children spend a
lot of time with their parents and consequently pick
up many or most of their parents' character traits.
You had better like your spouse's traits a lot
because you will be seeing them again in your
children.

If something were to happen to you, would you
completely trust this person, alone, with the task
of raising and forming your children? This is not a
pleasant thought, but it is an important
consideration. Not everyone dies at a ripe old age
with great grandchildren gathered around the bed.

Sometimes a parent dies and leaves young
children in the care of the other parent. If you feel
that you would need to be around to correct or
lessen this person's influence on your
children,then you are considering the wrong
person.

Does this person share your faith in God? God
does not give us children so that we can mould
them into the coolest, most popular people in
school. Our job is to get them to heaven. To do
that, we need to raise them believing in God. It is
tough to do that if only one parent believes.

Saying "This is right and that is wrong, and I want
you to ignore Mommy until you are thirty-five" does
not work. Small children ask about eight million
questions in a single day. The answers to those
questions go a long way toward forming the kind of
adults they will become. Who will be answering
those questions for your children?

Does this person you are marrying have sexual
self-control? Single people sometimes have this
idea that marriage is just some kind of lifelong sex
festival and that as long as they have each other,
they will never be tempted by other people. Wrong!

There are many times in every marriage when one
partner or the other is sexually unavailable -
illness, the last months of pregnancy,travel.

There are also times when spouses, just get on
each others' nerves.At times like this, other people
can seem very appealing. That can be dangerous,
because there are plenty of very attractive people
out there who are willing to make themselves
available to married men and women. Do you want
someone who has never said "no" to sex? If he is
not good at saying "no" at eighteen, it won't be
different at forty. Do you want to worry about
whether or not your Spouse is being faithful?

These are very important questions, and if you are
not comfortable with all of the answers, you should
definitely not marry this person.

None if this is to say that feelings play no role at
all in a marriage decision. You don't have to, "Well,
I suppose that you would make a good spouse and
parent,so even though I don't particularly like you I
guess I'll marry you'. You need to be happy and
excited about the prospect of spending your life
with someone.Your brain however must
acknowledge that this person as a good choice.
Don't listen to your heart alone nor your head
alone. Wait until your heart and head agree.

The Truth About Girls

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The Truth About Girls

1. When a girl says she's sad, but she isn't crying,
it means she's crying in her heart.

2. When she ignores you after you've done
something wrong, it's best to give her some time to
cool down before touching her heart with an
apology.

3. A girl can't find anything to hate about the guy
she loves (which is why it is so hard for her to 'get
over him' after the relationship's over.)

4. If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on her
mind every minute of the day, even though she
flirts with other guys.

5. When the guy she likes smiles and stares deep
into her eyes, she will melt.

6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually is
not sure how to react to them.

7. When a particular guy flirts with a girl very often,
a girl would start thinking the guy likes her. So if
you treat a girl just as a friend, go easy on the
smiles and stare ok.

8. If you don't like a girl who likes you, break it to
her gently.

9. If a girl starts avoiding you after you reject her,
leave her alone for a while. If you still treat her as a
friend, talk to her.

10. Girls enjoy talking about what they feel. Music,
poetry, drawings and writing are ways of
expressing themselves (which explains why most
girls like writing journals).

11. Never tell a girl that she is useless in any way.

12. Being too serious can turn a girl off.

13. When the guy she likes calls her for the first
time, the girl may act uninterested during the call.
But as soon as the phone is back on the hook,
she will whoop with joy and immediately start
telephoning her friends to spread the news.

14. A smile means a lot to a girl.

15. If you like a girl, try making friends with her
first. Let her get to know you.

16. If a girl says she can't go out with you because
she has to study, leave.

17. But if she still calls you or expect a call from
you, stay.

18. Don't try to guess a girl's feelings. Ask her.

19. Hearing the words "I love you" is a great
reassurance to a girl that she is beautiful.

20. After a girl falls in love with a guy, she'll wonder
why she never noticed him before.

21. If you need tips on how to flirt with a girl, read
romance stories.

22. When class pictures come out, a girl would
first check who is standing next to her crush
before actually looking at herself.

23. A girl's ex-crush will always be in her memory,
but the guy she loves now stays in her heart.

24. Girls love having fun!

25. A simple 'Hi' can brighten a girl's day.

26. A girl's best friends usually know best what
she is feeling and going through.

27. Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to them
just to get close to their 'prettier' friend.

28. Love means devotion, caring and happiness to
a girl, in that order.

29. Some girls care about looks, some care about
brains, but ALL girls want a guy who will love and
care for them.

30. Girls want nothing more than to feel loved.

Main Relationships Problems

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Main Relationships Problems

You've just gone through the honeymoon phase of
your new relationship and the other shoe's about to
drop. Find out how you can navigate through
arguments, spend some time apart and
communicate to keep your bond strong. Most of
all, learn how to make sure problems don't recur
like a bad case of athlete's foot.

1- She doesn't (fully) trust you
She suspects that you eye every female in view.
Why? Probably because you possess the sense
of sight and as such, you notice the opposite sex.
This, in turn, makes her jealous. While she may
be partly right, she's mostly wrong. Sure you look
at women, but only casually and briefly. After all,
by checking out women, your hardwired-by-
evolution male brain is just doing what it's
programmed to do. This doesn't mean you actually
want to pursue these women. Your lady needs to
know and understand this.

What to do:
Invite her out with your buddies and show her that
you only have eyes for her.

Another great way to show her that she's
overreacting is to play the "do you think that
guy/girl is cute?" game and show her that it's
natural to notice attractive people. By making it an
innocent act, you reduce this human instinct to its
most unthreatening level.

2- You need more "alone" time
It can be tough to start separating yourself from
her after spending all your time together. The
passion is still there, but you feel like she's
smothering you. It's time to spend some time
apart.

What to do:
Spend quality time with her but most importantly,
make it count. Don't simply sit on the couch and
watch television together because you're too tired
to do anything else. Plan a formal date: take her to
a restaurant and then head to a lounge for
cocktails. On those nights when you don't have
plans and she suggests getting together, tell her
that you need some alone time to chill out.

You can also encourage her to spend time with her
friends or take up a new hobby. This will give you
space and something to look forward to when you
do see her. And if her new hobby happens to be
watching football, then all the better, right?

3- You fight constantly
When the tiniest disagreement becomes an all-out
war, it can put a serious damper on your
relationship. Sleeping on the couch is not fun.

What to do:
Cut the argument short: is the topic really worth
arguing about? If it is, then try to understand the
problem from her point of view. Listen actively and
attentively. She may be hinting at what frustrates
her; don't ignore this information. Similarly, this is
a great opportunity to let her in on some of your
anger triggers. She'll listen to what you have to say
and take it to heart.

4- You disagree about financial matters
If you live together, who pays for what? Do you
always foot the bill when you're out? You might
think she's taking advantage of you. Find out.

In the long term, questions like these can pose
major obstacles in your lives. And more
disconcertingly, can cause lingering resentment if
you don't get them ironed out early on.

What to do:
If you live together, create a joint account for
shared expenses. Otherwise, go Dutch or take
turns footing the bill on nights out. Either way, use
these tools to restore some financial equilibrium.
It's not just about good fiscal planning; it may very
well save your relationship.

5- There's no more romance
The spark seems to be gone and neither of you
takes the time to be romantic anymore. It's time to
put some fire back into your sex life.

What to do:
Organize a romantic evening at home or rent a
hotel room. Put some champagne on ice, light a
few candles, buy her some lingerie, and turn into
Don Juan. Be spontaneous. Another great idea is
to plan a weekend getaway to the country or a spa
resort, to reconnect.

6- You work too much
She thinks you spend too much time at work.
Could she be right? Do long nights at the office or
working on weekends sound familiar? If so, rethink
your work patterns for the sake of your
relationship.

What to do:
Increase your productivity at the office. Clear a few
evenings and spend time with her. Make an effort
to give her the attention she needs.

Try and organize your lunch hours to see each
other more during your workweek. If you work
close to each other, hop in the car and take her
out for lunch.

Fix your problems

Your relationship is a two-way street. Keep in mind
that if you are making sacrifices for her sake, she
needs to do the same. If not, you need to consider
whether this is someone you really want to be
with.

Remember; relationships require maintenance and
compromise. There will always be issues that
need to be resolved. But if you use these problem-
solving suggestions, you'll have a better chance of
getting through the turmoil. Plus, you'll pre-empt
the constant nagging that you would have
otherwise heard from your girlfriend.

How to Find a Good Partner

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GIRLS....

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot,
who calls you back when you hang up on him,
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the boy who kisses your forhead,
who wants to show you off to the world
when you are in your sweats,
who holds your hand in front of his friends,
who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on.
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you
of how much he cares about you
and how lucky he is to have you.
Wait for the one who turns to his friends and
says, "...that's her."

GUYS...

Find a girl who calls you immature in that
affectionate way instead of hot or sexy,
who can't stand it when you hang up on her and
calls right back, who would sit there for hours
looking into your eyes,
who doesn't care what you look like, but what's
inside counts the most,
Who looks at you with the twinkle in her eyes and
kisses you,
Wants to be with you in public, even if you wear
those old grass stained and ripped pants with the
bleached jersey like always,
Wait for the girl who is a constant reminder of your
happiness and joy, who makes you smiles just by
knowing she loves you back.
Wait for the girl who you give piggy back rides to in
public and she still is in view of her friends, while
she gets off and you hear her go: "you're the one
for me, for always"

Guys vs Gals

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Guys drink to forget about the girl...
Girls drink to think back about the guy...

When guys are in love, they become poor...
When girls are in love, they become pretty...

Guys can forget, but cannot forgive...
Girls can forgive, but cannot forget...

Guys care the most about the quantity of love...
Girls care the most about the quality of love...

Guys break-up when they feel love from another
Girl...
Girls break-up when they feel the feeling of
Separation from her man...

Guys feel curiosity towards all girls...
Girls feel curiosity towards guys who are
Interested in her...

When guys are heartbroken, they try to forget
About the girl by going out With another girl...
When girls are heartbroken, they try to find his
Characteristics from another guy...

Guys wish to be her first love....
Girls wish to be his last love

When girls cry??

2006-07-16T04:55:00.000+08:00

If a girl cries in front of u, it means that she couldnt
take it anymore. If u take her hand, she would stay
with u for the rest of ur life; If u let her go, she
couldnt go back to being herself anymore.

A gal wont cry easily, except in front of the person
whom she loves
the most, she becomes weak.

A gal wont cry easily, only when she love u the
most, she put down her ego.

Guys, if a gal cries bcoz of u, please hold her
hands firmly, coz she's the one who is willing to
stay with u 4 for the rest of ur life.

Guys, if a gal cries bcoz of u, please dont give her
up, maybe bcoz of ur decision, u ruin her life.

When she cry rite in front of u, When she cry bcoz
of u, Look into her eyes, Can u see n feel the pain
n hurt she's feeling? Think. Which other girl have
cried with pure sincerity, In front of u, And bcoz of
u?

She cries not because she is weak, She cries not
bcoz she wants sympathy or pity,
She cries, Because crying silently is no longer
possible, the pain, hurt n agony have bcome too
big a burden to be kept inside.

Guys, Think about it, If a gal cry her heart out to u,
And all because of u, Its time to look back on wat
u have done, Only u will know the answer to it.

Do consider it, Coz one day, It may be too late for
regrets, It may be too late to say "im sorry".

What She Says vs. What She Means

2006-07-16T04:49:00.000+08:00

While you may come across a woman who means
what she says and says what she means at some
point in your life, chances are that you've probably
had more encounters with women who do just the
opposite. Many women have this insanely
annoying habit of saying the complete opposite of
what they mean, or even worse, asking you
seemingly innocent questions that are really a
highly orchestrated plot to test you at every
possible opportunity.
I'm sure that like many men, you've unwittingly
fallen victim to such behavior, which has left you
puzzled, bewildered and even frustrated.

This isn't only bad for you, it's also bad for us
women who don't engage in this strange practice,
because then you end up trying to decode things
that we actually meant to be taken literally; which
often results in serious misunderstandings.

In the hopes of setting things straight once and for
all -- and making you chuckle -- I have outlined
some of the most widely used lines that women
subject their men to, how you interpret them, and
what she probably meant. I have also included
suggestions on what you can do to circumvent this
horrible form of miscommunication.

1- "I don't mind when you go to strip joints."

What you think: "My girlfriend is so cool! I need to
call the guys right now and head down to Hooters!"

What she probably meant: "Not only can I not
believe that you enjoy watching nearly naked
gyrating skanks, but I abhor when you go to strip
joints! If you really cared about me, you wouldn't
even think about ever going to one again!"

The women who play this game do not understand
that guys will always love to look at attractive
women -- especially ones that are dancing for
them, nearly naked and not playing any mind
games with them -- and that it really has nothing to
do with them at all.

Instead, they take you going to a strip joint as a
personal insult to them, and are too insecure to
even tell you so directly, so they try using reverse
psychology -- which usually doesn't work out as
they had hoped.

By telling you that they don't mind, they are hoping
that you will turn around and say: "Why would I
need to go to a filthy strip joint when I have all the
woman I could possibly ever want to look at right
now in front of me?"

But you took it at face value, and are still paying
for it I'm sure. By going to the club, you not only
became a male pig in her eyes, but you also
became a thick male pig because you failed to
grasp the meaning of such an obvious statement.

What to do next time: Take this statement with a
grain of salt and don't get too excited. Don't go to a
strip joint that night, or even the following night.
But when you do decide to go ogle some big-
chested blondes, and she tries to give you flack
about it, gently remind her about what she said.
She won't be able to say a word.

2- "If you weren't with me, which of my friends
would you go for?"

What you think: "This is odd. She wants me to tell
her how hot I think her friend Jennifer is. Okay
then..."

What she probably meant: "Please tell me that
you don't think my friend Jennifer is hotter than
me."

Like the previous example, this is yet another test
for her to determine if you love her in a way that
she deems acceptable or not.

By asking you this question, she is hoping you'll
tell her that you can't even picture being with
anyone but her, and that, she is, by far, the
prettiest of her friends.

What to do next time: Although I don't usually
advocate lying, if you don't feel like spending the
next few days profusely apologizing to your
girlfriend for no reason -- and having your every
exchange with Jennifer turn into a paranoid 'r' us
convention -- then for God's sake man, do not
reveal your said crush.

Try telling her what she wants to hear, and moving
in for some action to back up your words of love.
(Yes, this is a woman writing this).

3- "Tell me the truth: have I gained weight?"

What you think: "Well, she has been looking a
little chunky lately... Here's my chance to make
sure that this doesn't go any further. Is that ice
cream in her hands?!?"

What she probably meant: "I'm feeling insecure
about how I look. Tell me something reassuring."

This is a tough one because on one hand, you
don't want to hurt your girlfriend's feelings, but you
don't want to be dating a fat chick either. So what
is a guy to do?

Tell me you didn't playfully tell her that she's giving
Renee Zellweger in Bridget Jones's Diary a run for
her money... You poor soul.

What to do next time: She may just be fishing for
a compliment. If she really hasn't gained any
weight, tell her that she looks fantastic and that
she's being silly.

If she has gained over 10 pounds, and it doesn't
seem to be stopping, maybe you can gently tell
her that you've both put on a few pounds lately,
and suggest that you both start going to the gym
together.

By using the right tone and choosing your words
wisely -- and showing her that you are willing to go
to the gym with her -- you will at least make her
feel like she has your support.

words of wisdom

It's sad but true: women don't always say what
they mean. So don't fall prey to their traps. Try to
see through their queries and comments as much
as possible, and avoid any undue grief. But
remember that some women actually do say what
they mean (I know, you just can't win...).

Does communication help???

2006-07-16T04:48:00.000+08:00

The most common relationship predicament, when
you boil it down to the essence of the problem, is
communication.

Men are the main offenders in this epidemic. We
have that massive male ego to contend with for
one, and an almost primordial instinct to "win" at
every endeavor we partake in. When it comes to
good communication, MEN Sucks at it and to be
honest. Many women are not much better. But the
bottom line is, we can all improve on the way we
communicate with each other. - Lawrence Mitchell

Make time
That's right; make time. Why the blank stare? You
set aside time to watch sports, eat and have sex,
don't you? Why should communication with your
woman be any different? You have to block off an
hour or two for quality time with her, whenever
possible. Prioritize it. Make the effort to sit down
across from her after a long day to discuss work,
friends and your relationship. Heck, you can talk
about the weather for all I care. Just talk.

Don't force the topic toward the relationship but do
seize the opportunity to mention how well things
are going or perhaps bring up areas you need to
improve on to give her what she needs. In addition,
don't shy away from explaining to her what you
need from her. Too many men have a problem with
this.

Take the time as you sit together, cook together,
travel together, or eat together to voice your
dissatisfaction with certain aspects of the
relationship. Just do it in a calm fashion, so as not
to alarm her. Reassure her that you're happy (if
that is the case) with the overall relationship; you
just want one or two things to change. Whatever
you want to discuss, just make the time for it and
make it a joint effort.

Be an active listener

It requires patience because you have to give her
as much time to listen to her message as she
needs, point blank. Concentration is key because
you have to not only look at her, but also focus on
her: her eyes, her body language and her voice.
What is she saying? What is she telling you?
Concentrate.

I include modesty because a lot of men, myself
included, have a problem letting someone take the
floor for an extended period of time. They like to
hear their own voice and want others to hear it too.
These men want to dominate the conversation and
hold court, so to speak. This is not, sad to say, a
trait conducive to good relationship rapport.

So toss your ego aside and let her speak. And
above all else, let her have the last word once in a
while.
Hint: It's not a sign of masculine weakness to do
so.

Focus on her nonverbal communication
Some men are just so damn clueless, it makes
me want to cry. They either fail to pick up on
nonverbal hints from their partner on purpose, or
just plain have no sensitivity radar at all. It's
astonishing really, to witness these men in action.

Their girlfriends throw up their hands in
exasperation or stare at them dumbfounded and
hurt when they turn their backs and walk away or
start a conversation with someone else. What's
the deal with these men?

Hey, I'm no angel but when my woman is sad,
upset, or angry, an alarm in my head goes off
immediately. I just know. Maybe her body
language is less subtle than other women, but still,
an instinct in me is set off and I quickly attempt to
douse the fire. If you're not as quick to respond,
you're either a jerk who doesn't care and does it on
purpose, or oblivious to the nuances of nonverbal
communication.

Here's the lowdown: Nonverbal communication
includes gestures, movements, facial expressions,
and other physical forms of body language. Take
note, however; it also includes tone of voice, sighs,
screams, and vocal pitch and volume. Pay
attention to all of these whenever you
communicate with your lady.

In good and bad times, nonverbal communication
will serve as an instant sign as to how she feels
about you at that very moment, not to mention how
she feels in general. No matter what words she
chooses, her body language cannot mask her real
emotions.

Let her know you care
This is where men get bit in the behind. Our
competitive nature compels us to try to win every
fight, to the point where we forget the one simple
tenet about relationship conflict: There is no
winner. It's time to stop thinking of every fight as a
chance to get the upper hand and use rhetoric until
she admits you're right.

That's not the end goal you should want in the long
run. Because if it is, your woman is going to resent
you before long. Not good. Which brings me to my
point: Let her know, no matter how bad, how
intense and how passionate the fight, that you
care. Amidst all your rage and even when tempers
flare, take a deep breath and do something to let
her know that when all is said and done, you love
her.

Touch her arm, stroke her hair, put your palm to
her cheek, or just say the words, "I love you." Of
course, some women don't appreciate such
gestures in the "heat of battle" and may shove
your hand aside or turn their back. Don't take it
personally and don't get upset. Just get the
message across that you care, even if she isn't
ready to make up.

Do not be one of these guys

The Pretender: This is the man who has the
appearances of an active listener but at the end of
the day, does not give a damn about what his
woman has to say. But give him credit; he
manages to fool her almost every time. Too bad he
has no idea how she feels at any given moment.
His mind is on "more important" things, like his
golf game or other women.

The Stage Hog: This big baby has to have all the
attention, all the time. He loves to hear the sound
of his own voice, to the detriment of his own
relationship. Whenever possible, he shifts the
focus of the conversation to himself, even if he has
done his woman wrong. Do not become this loser.

The Trap-Setter: This selfish type listens to what
he wants to hear. He is a selective active listener
who turns the tables on his victim to use what she
had to say against her at another point in time. His
sole goal is to humiliate his woman the next time
they fight and ensnare her to make himself look
good. But to whom? In the long run, nobody.

The Contradictor: This type can take on many
forms. He either refuses to acknowledge that there
is a problem and unleashes a fierce temper until
he gets his way, or worse yet; he turns his back
anytime conflict arises. The bottom line though, is
that this child can never take responsibility for his
actions or recognize that something is amiss.

The Insensitive Jerk: This non-communicator can
inhabit the body of any other type at any point in
time. He is selfish and has his own agenda in mind
every time he fights with his woman. For one
reason or another, he refuses to show compassion
or admit when he is wrong. He can be abusive in a
verbal manner or on the other side of the spectrum,
hold his emotions in check so that his lady has no
idea what is going on inside his small,
dysfunctional head. Everyone hates Insensitive
Jerk. Do not be him.

Just wanna to share a story with u all~*

2006-07-16T04:45:00.000+08:00

It was first day of the mid-year exams, therefore i
finished school a little earlier, i called him,
:Hey, i finished school earlier today, would you
come by and pick me up?
:Alright, give me 5 minutes.
:5 minutes? But my school is just beside your
house.
:I need to get ready.
:Alright, make it fast then.
2pm in the afternoon, the sun is extremely hot, I
stood under a shaded tree and fan myself.
Although it doesn't make much of a difference, it
was better that I fanned.
5 minutes have passed, he's still not shown up, I
was a lil' unhappy while looking at my watch.
10 minutes and he's still not here....couldn't be
that he was met with an accident?
15 minutes passed, he finally shown up.
:Why are you so late?
He wasn't even a lil' bothered: Nahz, was watching
TV.
:What?! TV?! Why don't you sleep, bathe and eat
before you come down then?
I haven't got anything else to say for that, didn't
take the helmet he handed me but stood there and
stared at him.
:Sorry.
This was the first time he said sorry to me...
He is an egoistical person all along and has never
once apologised to a girl.
I looked at him, Alright, took the helmet and let
him sent me home.
He is always acting like this, no explanations, no
friction, no quarrels.
The only thing he does is to apologise. To me,
somethings can't be settled with a sorry.
I would never go on asking after everytime he
apologises.
He told me, that was the first time he said sorry to
a girl.
Although it take courage to admit mistakes, he
never once correct his mistakes.
Saying sorry became a word to shut me up
instead.
Tears flowed down my cheek on the 59th time he
apologised.
I dropped my head: you don't ever need to say
sorry to me again.
If you can never change, then don't let me keep
giving you chances again and again hoping and
believing that you would change each time.
He held me lightly, and said the 60th sorry.
Even then, he did not change, and there was no
explanation whatsoever.
I began to worry if there was something he was
keeping from me.
:What's wrong with you these few days?
:Nothing.
:Then why are you acting so strange?
:I am not.
:What can you say other than this answer?
o you know I'm very woried, very insecure,
do you treat me as your girlfriend?
:I'm sorry...
:I don't want to hear you say sorry again.
I put down the phone and he did not call back.
He doesn't even care about me. Maybe we
should....break up.
....this was the 99th time he said sorry...
From that day onwards, I never once called me or
went to look for him.
Sometimes I get an anonymous phonecall
but everytime I said hello, it was dead, i think it's a
call from him, but why don't he speak up?
After one month have passed, I couldn't contain
the feelings I still have for him anymore and went
to his school to find him.
I went outside his classroom and looked around,
but there was no sign of him.
:excuse me, is XOXO here today?
:I'm afraid he already stopped schooling.
:Huh? Why? When was that?
:He hasn't been in school for a month already.
:Oh erms...thanks.
One month....not in school for one month...why is
that so? I stumbled home.
Called his hp: Sorry the caller is currently
unavailable, please leave your message after the
tone....
I put down the phone, and called his house next,
but there was no answer.
How can it be? The whole family migrated?
It seems as though he has already disappeared
from the face on the earth leaving not even a single
trace.
I couldn't find him....just as I was feeling
distraughted, the phone suddenly sounded, it was
my friend.
He was one of his brothers and also my good
friend.
:Hey, what have you been doing? XOXO is in
hospital.
:REALLY? WHAT HAPPENED?
:Oh he is in ZZ hospital, the one you stayed in last
time.
:I'll be right there.
I used the fastest speed my legs could carry and
when I reached the hospital I saw that his parents
were already there.
I asked them for the room number and flew across
the hall.
He was lying on bed, looking at me, not saying a
word, not moving a muscle,
:Hey, what happened to you? Why didn't you
contact me?
He did not answer, and used the same stare on
me again.
:Come on answer me...why don't you speak?
A tear flowed down the side of his eye, and it
looked as though he used the greatest amount of
strength that he could master to say...
:I'm...sorry...
After that, his eyes went shut.
:Hey, don't fool around alright...why say sorry to
me?
:Don't say sorry to me....please wake up....answer
me please.
I wept and fell down on the side of his bed, pulling
his shirt I cried out..
:Why do you have to apologise? Why don't you
give me an explanation instead?
:I won't forgive you, wake up, saying sorry is no
use...
:If you don't wake up I'll never ever forgive you in
this lifetime, please I beg of you..open your
eyes.....
That was the 100th sorry
A group of medical staff, doctors, nurses pulled me
away and tried to revive him. I had no strength to
stand up...
My mind was a blank.... my eyes could only see a
sea of black.
He did not leave this world...I merely lost the
chance to touch him anymore.
But he would appear in my dreams sometimes,
telling me how he was doing.
He's still accompaning me, still alive, in my heart.
would still laugh at my silliness, and call me his
darling....just that...he never apologise to me
anymore.
After a month, his mom came to look for me, and
gave me a box...inside was
a 100 photographs, everyone had a story behind
them..the reasons why he made me angry.
The first time, my dear, I did not purposely arrive
late to pick you up.
I know this excuse is really lame, but I didn't have
the heart to tell you the truth then,
before I stepped out of the house, I felt a pain in
my chest, but I still made it a point to meet you,
please forgive me?
The second time, my dear, I...
The third time, my dear, I...
The 100th time, my dear, I didn't mean to leave
you alone in this world,
It had to be so because God did not give me the
chance to say I Love You for this lifetime of mine,
and to put the ring on your finger....
You are the first girl I apologised to.
And also the first girl I want to be with for the rest
of my life...
Forgive me for not able to bring you happiness but
I have thus become your angel, always looking out
for you...
Looking at you while you find your
happiness...promise me...don't shed a tear...
I don't want to see you weep like this for me, I Love
You ~XOXO
How can I not cry? What you said was just too
impossible.
The last photograph was of him in the hospital,
Although he was skinny, the smile on his face was
bright as ever.
His face was white and yet he tried his best to give
his last smile on the last photo, the 100th.
At the time when he needed me the most, I wasn't
with him.
:I'm sorry.
I held the photo tightly and cried for us.....

So Guys out there... Explain to your girlfriend...
Always......
And girls... understand your boyfriend... Always...

SaYinG ~I LovE yOu~

2006-07-16T04:33:00.000+08:00

When you are only 5 years old, I said "I love you".
You asked me, "What is it?"

When you are 15 years old, I said "I love you".
You blushed..
You looked down and smiled..

When you are 20 years old, I said "I love you".
You put your head on my shoulder and held my
hand..
Afraid that I might disappear..

When you are 25 years old, I said "I love you".
You prepared breakfast and served it in front of
me, and kissed my forehead and said, "You better
be quick, it's gonna be late."

When you are 30 years old, I said "I love you".
You said, "If you really love me, please come back
early after work."

When you are 40 years old, I said "I love you".
You were cleaning the dining table and said, "ok,
dear.. but it's time for you to help our child with his
revision."

When you are 50 years old, I said "I love you"
You were knitting and you laughed at me

When you are 60 years old, I said "I love you"
We sit on the rocking chair with our glasses on.
I'm reading your love letter that you sent to me 50
years ago.. with our hand crossing together..

When you are 80 years old, you said you love me..
I didn't say anything..
But cried..
That day must be the happiest day of my life..
because you said you love me

5 Secrets of getting a MAN to open up

2006-07-16T04:27:00.000+08:00

Secret 1: Real Men Fear Rejection -- Really!

Most men feel that women r very critical of them, &
they worry that if they do open up, someone's
going to laugh at them, leaving them rejected &
humiliated. It's important for women to realize that
a man's EGO & sense of identity are generally
more fragile than hers & more easily threatened.

Not judging ur partner means allowing him to say
wat is on his mind, & simply being willing to hear
it. This does not mean tat u don't have an opinion
or tat u can't offer it at some point. In order for him
open up to u, he has to feel truly accepted for who
he is, not for who u may want him to be. Be
patient with him.

If u respond to his thoughts by immediately offering
ur pt of view with something like "Well, that's
wrong. I don't agree" or, "Where did you get a
crazy idea like that?" any man is going to clam
right up. They're afraid if they say something too
personal, it may not fit into the image you have of
them, or the image they force themselves to
project.

Don't be afraid to allow him to show you all
different parts of himself. If u can let go of ur
expectations & really just try to find out who he is,
he will immediately sense it, feel greatly at ease &
enjoy talking to u.

Secret 2: Reveal Yourself As Well

Everybody has problems, fears & skeletons in the
closet. Many guys think, "If I share this, she'll
leave me." You've to show that this is not the case
by revealing something abt urself that shows u've
as much trust in him as he has in u.

When he starts to open up, listen to what he is
saying, then take a step beyond & offer something
positive in return. After he tells u something
personal, say something like, "Well, that's not so
bad. I've done worse." Or, "I really admire this abt
wat happened" & pick something in the story u
really do admire. (Don't make this up, though. It
will fall flat & turn into manipulation. Pple always
know when they r being manipulated on some lvl &
it never works out.) Let him know u're on his team,
tat he is not alone with his experience.

Many women listen to the stories that men tell
only to respond by telling him how he's been
looking at it wrong.

When two people are making friends, they share
their common experiences mutually and, because
of that, experience closeness and comfort.

It's amazing how many men feel tremendously
alone. Not only have they been trained for silence,
taught that it is unmanly to express what they are
going through, they usually don't get feedback from
the guys in their world. Ur honest & positive
feedback is vital. If u bond in this way, ur partner
will feel there is some1 there who understands
them & open up even more.

Secret 3: Let Go of the Past

Have u ever have a discussion where it turning into
a litany of past grievances??? When a man fears
tat his words will later b distorted, misunderstood,
told to others or thrown back at him, it is
impossible for him to open up. & the only way to
move beyond this communication trap is to realize
tat watever happened in e past, watever ur ex did
or said, u were involved as well. Meaning, no one
is entirely gd & no one entirely bad. In fact, rather
than seeing any1 as gd or bad, it is more useful to
notice the roles being played in the r/s & the ways
in which all of us become stuck in patterns that we
don't know how to get out of.

For example, some women love playing the victim
or martyr. They need the blame of the r/s in order
to validate their own feelings & feel powerful over
their partner. In fact, they may hold a man to them
in this way for a while. But it's a sure sign tat e
communication has completely closed down & the
r/s is on the rocks.

If u want to avoid or change this sorry state of
affairs and help him speak to u openly, try this.
Take responsibility 4 ur part in the situation & C
the ways in which u might have contributed to wat
happened. This does not mean blaming yourself,
either. Just to look at the situation with a large
eye. Focus on all the things he did "right,"
not "wrong." If u need more direction here, take out
ur journal & make lists of wat u've received from
the r/s & wat u've given in return. Notice times
when u were also less than perfect, & notice the
ways in which both of u've grown & changed.

The ability to forgive may be just as simple as
realizing tat wat was true a year ago abt him (and
abt yourself as well) may not be true now. Stay
focused in the present. True communication
requires the ability to remain in the present and to
let the past be over when it's done.

Secret 4: Become a Solid -- and Secure -- Listener

Is it even possible to have honest r/s? The
assumption is tat everybody's going to be honest.
The truth is, few people are. & the main reason tat
pple are dishonest is tat the consequences r too
big. Many men feel that women want & need to be
lied to b'cos they can't take the honest truth.
Some guys fear telling their partner wat is really
going on in their lives, or how they truly feel b'cos it
will upset her. In fact, many women use their
emotions to control men -- & ctrl the r/s. They
demand certain responses from men, and feel
devastated if they don't get them. Then they're
surprised when he shuts down and doesn't talk.

Unfortunately, many women also have strong
images of how a man is "supposed" to feel, and
think. That kind of fantasy makes the truth
devastating, so they let the man know in many
subtle ways that they do not want it. Sound
familiar? We're all guilty of this from time to time,
but being willing to listen to what he has to say is
the beginning of a truly mature r/s. It gives the man
the feeling that he has a solid partner who will be
there with him through thick and thin.

If you're ready to break out of this unrealistic rut,
it's time to ask urself 3 things.

1) How much of the truth you can tolerate?
2) How much do you really want?
3) Do u wan ur man 2 b a fantasy figure 4 u, or
allow him 2 become REAL?

These are huge questions. Perhaps you cannot
take all of the truth at once right now, but u can
certainly build up ur tolerance muscles & move in
that direction.

Oddly enough, we all think tat fantasy makes us
feel wonderful, but in fact, the more reality we can
take, the stronger we grow. The ability to accept
honesty from others increases as we realize that
true security comes not from the approval of others
but from being true to ourselves.

Secret 5: Be True to Yourself -- Be Aware

It's an old question but a gd one.

How can we be true to another if we aren't true to
ourselves?

The best way to help a man open up is simply to
be open urself, be natural, be real and exude an
atmosphere of warmth and acceptance. Those who
we encounter in life are mirrors of different parts of
ourselves and we attract certain people who each
help us love another part of ourselves.

This is why it's important to apply the five secrets
covered here not only to the men in our lives but
also to ourselves.

When u treat yourself this way, it is only natural to
do the same thing to ur partner. If when young u
were always scolded or made to feel inadequate in
some way, you are likely to act the same way
toward your man.

Awareness is crucial here. If u want to create a
more open dynamic between ur partner & urself,
take a strong inventory of the way u treat & regard
urself & the way u were treated by the significant
others of ur past.
If u were hurt, this is ur chance to make a decision
to not live ur life on automatic-pilot-of-the-past
anymore. Turn it around. Decide to be kind &
accepting, both of urself & to the one u're with.

Sometimes we give in to another in the
expectation of receiving the same in return.
When that doesn't happen, silent fury starts to
build.
That is behaving with an agenda, giving mixed
messages and not being true to another or urself.
In order to give of urself truly, you have to realize
that you "get" as much out of giving as out of
receiving.

When you give the other unconditional respect and
regard, you are giving that to yourself as well.

You are behaving in the best way possible, and the
fine effects always reverberate back. When you
treat others in a way you respect, you are building
a sense of value and worth.
If your partner doesn't reciprocate, you won't have
to feel like it's your failing or loss. Instead you will
easily move on to someone who is more like you.

The bottom line: Be true to yourself and you will
find that it is contagious. The men (and women)
you are with will start to behave the same way.
They will communicate openly and naturally, not
with a fixed agenda, not to manipulate or control. If
they don't behave this way, they will naturally move
out of your life -- to a place that is more
appropriate for them

How To Be A Better Couple

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1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or
she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1
Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has
had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and
understand that her physical appearance is NOT
going to change overnite with the help of a few
facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has
already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with
what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for
what u are. There is more to ur partner than what
meets the eye.

2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or
mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This
works with the gals. Don't make assumptions
about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself
better so that ur partner undrstands what u're
angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about!
When u stop talking to each other from the heart,
it's the beginning of the end.

3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do t hings together. Do some
sports or involve urselves in some shared activities;
something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It
could be as simple as watching movies together,
or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road.
Watch soccor with him once in a while though the
green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds.
And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day
at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she
go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities"
instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends
rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that
u're drifting apart!!!

4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with
the "The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of
a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy. There's
gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship,
so learn to meet each other halfway.

5.Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and
then, even if u have been together for 5years. It's
wonderful to continue showing someone that u
care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint
him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks
he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ),
buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his
wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be
romantic and loving despite having been together
for quite a while.

6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or
whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she
thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority
complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys
and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting
each other's feelings and being sensitive to each
other at all times.

7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the
happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would
jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't
talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or
mention about her in ur every other sentence as it
would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might
think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get
back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.

8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the
beginning of the relationship, but don't translate
that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go
through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and
eavesdropping on conversations, u know
something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a
poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship
before finall y killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to
have trust in it.

9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and
cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to
talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur
priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it.
It's really terrible when someone promises to take
u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make
promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel
that he/she is not important enough to u, u may
jus lose him/her.

10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks
first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has
the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we
mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not
being bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and
when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting
hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who
can u be honest with? Love is also about
honesty, and a relationship where no honesty
exists probably isn't worth it!

7 secrets of lasting love

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It's not easy to find someone whom u like and he
likes u in return. But I do
agree a article, it's says: A physical and chemical
match is essential at
the start, but the excitement of a budding new
romance eventually wears off. It is
important to make thoughtful dating decision.

Easy loving:
When Jenny met Michael, they were instantly
attracted to each other. In
an exciting whirlwind of parties and romantic
dates, they swept each other off
their feet. They decided to get married and live
happily ever after. Years
later the hormones had calmed down - and so had
the fireworks. When the smoke
cleared, the mismatches started to emerge. Her
passion to shop and his
questionable money decisions created constant
financial stress. He liked to
hang with the guys at the bar. She loved to go to
the theater with friends.
They disagreed on children and family values,
especially religion.
Communication broke down. Eventually, they grew
apart.
Sound familiar? A physical and chemical match is
essential at the start,
but the excitement of a budding new romance
eventually wears off. Making
thoughtful dating decisions can mean the
difference between revolving
relationships and finding lasting love.
Dating experts outline seven areas where it's best
if you match:

a.. Physical appearance
While physical appearance and attraction draw two
people together at
first, remember that appearances can change. If
working out and staying fit is
important to you, will it bum you out if your mate
doesn't share your quest for
rock hard abs?

b.. Emotional maturity
Is this person emotionally mature and centered or
are they still
lugging around some trunk-sized baggage? How
does your sweetheart relate to
family and friends? Is he or she emotionally
supportive or have control issues?
Is your mate aware of his or her own issues and
interested in addressing them?

c.. Lifestyle choices
This includes career and social lives, common
interests, leisure-time
activities and energy levels. Would she rather join
the bowling league or the
metropolitan symphony? Does he have lots of
energy for activities with friends
while she'd rather rest and chill out at home?

d.. Financial style
This is a hot bed for most couples. It includes
income levels,
financial goals and views on handling money. How
do you each want to spend,
save and invest? Is one person a spender while the
other saves? Is one person
financially responsible while the other plays catch-
up with child support and
bills?

e.. Value structure
This match area is often overlooked but has a
tremendous impact on
your life. It includes the big values: honesty,
integrity, loyalty, views on
family and children, religion and spirituality, life
goals and the treatment
and care for others. Does your mate follow through
on her word? Would you say
he's trustworthy? Will she always be there for you
in a pinch?

f.. Marriage and s*x
Everyone does not share the same idea of
marriage. The big questions
to address are: What do you and your mate
expect from marriage and s*x? Is he
or she looking for a soul mate? Do you both want
close intimacy in friendship,
communication and s*x?

g.. Intelligence
Having similar education levels increases your
chances of sharing
matching school and social experiences,
intellectual interests and career
goals. What topics do you and your honey like to
talk about? Conversation
limited to sports or shopping may get boring to
someone who likes to ponder
philosophy and bluster about business.
While you don't have to match exactly in each
area, look at the big
picture and make sure you match closely enough
in the important areas of your
life.

Here's some WORDS WOMEN USE, and what they actually mean...

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FINE
This is the word women use to end an argument
when they feel they are right and you need to shut
up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman
looks -- this will cause you to have one of those
arguments.

FIVE MINUTES
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five
minutes that your football game is going to last
before you take out the trash, so it's an even trade.

NOTHING
This means "something," and you should be on
your toes.
"Nothing" is usually used to describe the feeling a
woman has of wanting to turn you inside out,
upside down, and backwards. "Nothing" usually
signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes"
and end with "Fine"

GO AHEAD ( With Raised Eyebrows! )
This is a dare. One that will result in a woman
getting upset over "Nothing" and will end with the
word "Fine"

GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows).
This means "I give up" or "do what you want
because I don't care" You will get a "Raised
Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed
by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in
about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.

LOUD SIGH
This is not actually a word, but is a nonverbal
statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud
Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that
moment, and wonders why she is wasting her time
standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing"

SOFT SIGH
Again, not a word, but a nonverbal statement. "Soft
Sighs" mean that she is content. Your best bet is
to not move or breathe, and she will stay content.

THAT'S OKAY
This is one of the most dangerous statements that
a woman can make to a man. "That's Okay"
means that she wants to think long and hard
before paying you back for whatever it is that you
have done. "That's Okay" is often used with the
word "Fine" and in conjunction with a "Raised
Eyebrow."

GO AHEAD!
At some point in the near future, you are going to
be in some mighty big trouble.

PLEASE DO
This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is
giving you the chance to come up with whatever
excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is
that you have done. You have a fair chance with
the truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get
a "That's Okay"

THANKS
A woman is thanking you. Do not faint. Just
say, "You're welcome."

THANKS A LOT
This is much different from "Thanks." A woman will
say, "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off
at you. It signifies that you have offended her in
some callous way, and will be followed by
the "Loud Sigh." Be careful not to ask what is
wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell
you "Nothing"

Five surprising reasons men are happy in a relationship

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Don't be fooled by the male ego. Men look for more
in a relationship than an attractive women who will
cook him a good meal and wash his clothes every
once in a while. What he really needs is your
admiration.

He needs to communicate with you
A lot of men need to be in a relationship more than
women do. Surprising? Not really, when you think
about it. Women usually have close relationships
with their friends. They talk about health problems
until they feel better. But men don't. As Helen
Fielding's character, Bridget Jones, says, 'Women
have emotions and men have football.' Men are
competitive and so, in general, they rarely share
their emotions or problems with each other, as
they think it makes them look too weak. When he
needs to open up and talk about his feelings,
guess who he eventually shows his vulnerable side
to? You!

He wants to be your hero
Knowing that he can make someone else happy
makes him feel good inside, because he has the
power to change things. And what bloke doesn't
secretly want power of some sort? At least if he
can't always be top dog at work, he can be a star
at home. Instinctively, he aspires to be Spider-Man
or Superman – to be your hero, to be able to make
things right: to be appreciated, to be someone's
knight in shining armour. So when you are
disappointed or unhappy, he feels responsible.
What matters is that you are happy and then he's
got one less thing to worry about. Strange but true.

He strives to make you happy
The number one reason men leave relationships is
because they feel as though they can't meet their
partner's needs. This makes them feel inadequate,
and it makes them feel as though there's no way
their partner can feel respect for them. For women,
communication seems to be the top priority in
keeping the relationship going – but, quite
honestly, men don't understand this constant need
to talk about things over and over.

For men, the relationship is a success if they feel
respected and if they make their partner happy.
This is why a new conquest is exactly that – he
feels as though he is in charge – he is once again
someone's knight in shining armour.

If you resent him because you feel overworked and
under-appreciated, stop doing so much – you are
probably destroying your relationship! He doesn't
want to feel responsible for you rushing around,
worn into the carpet, and most men really don't
notice whether the housework has been done or
not. What they want is respect and
appreciation. 'All we really want from women,' a
(male) friend recently told me, 'is for you to smile
at us.' (And probably one other thing, if he thought
about it for longer than a millisecond.)

S*x makes him feel loved
*** has the same effect on men as romance does
on women. So the reverse is also true: no *** = no
love, no approval, no acknowledgement. They get
that same sad, unloved feeling that you get when
you don't get flowers, your partner looks at other
women or ignores you.

You are his (secret) reason for living
He needs you because you inspire him to do
better – he has someone to do things for, goals to
reach, a reason to go out and conquer the world.
What's the point of being disgustingly rich and
powerful if there's no one to share it with? What he
needs is the gift of you.

WHY I LOVE YOU

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I tell you that I love you,
and you are satisfied with that.
You have never asked me why
all you ask of me is my love.
If you were to ask me why I love you,
I would tell you what is in my heart.

You are the sun, glowing with warmth.
You have melted the ice from my heart,
And it is now full of joy and happiness.
You have opened my eyes, given me light,
And done away with the darkness.

You are the wind, gentle and soft,
Whenever I have needed you,
You have always been there.
You have lifted me up and carried me
Through all of the difficult times.

You are a single star, beautiful and unique
Though you are surrounded by millions of others
You have an air that makes you the brightest
You are my confidant and lover
Someone I can share all of my thoughts with.

For all of these reasons, I love you.
You have done more for me than anyone
I can only hope I have done the same
I would do anything for you,
And I just want you to know
That I love you forever eternally.

~AT CCK LOT 1~

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Today, i went to (Chua Chu Kang) LOT 1, tO wait for dear dear to knock off.. wait until i abit tired, becoz walk here and there.. After that i lean on the pole near the Hang Ten to rest, then i see 2 guys walk pass me, i think they look at me.. but i see behind got another 2 guys i thought they are looking at their friend, so i dun care liao~

After that i walk out to Macdonald, think of buying ice cream to eat.. but see liao dun feel like buying liao.. then i walk here and there outside the shopping centre main door.. Then i see the 2 guys again.. i thought they just passby.. In the end they really looking at me~ 1 of them walk toward me and say, my fren want to Take Your Number Can? I got Shock!! Them i say no.no.no. After that the guy who want the number take out his phone and ask me for the number. Really sorry i'm to scare sO i say NO.NO.NO again to him.. hAhAhA~ really sorry.. If i not scare i will give ba, but sorry to suddenly.. And if want.. i also give you my bf number haha.. kidding~
Scare he will jealous? If girls come and take his number i also will jealous de leh`` LoLz hEhEhEhE~~*

SORRY I SEE GUYS WHO I DUN KNOW HIM I WILL SCARE~ JUST KNOW HIM I ALSO WILL SCARE.. Dun know why i so scare!!!! *LOLx* But leh~ IF HE KNOW ME LONG TERM~~ HE WILL SCARE ME DE~~~ hahaha~ dUn believe then TRY to know me loR~ hAhAhA~

Girl Dollies

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Sweetheart Dollies

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6月18日管理投资

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6月18日管理投资

在6月18日出生的人，总是让别人无法察觉他们的行动，像个“藏镜人”般在幕后控制一切。他们拥有特殊的影响力，甚至能跨越时节空限制，透过强而有力的想法，将力量传送至无边无涯；因此，他们是很难对付的敌人。此外，他们还相当擅长理财，尤其是这天出生的女性，非常懂得如何赚钱和投资理财，他们是绝佳的资金管理人。

有趣的是，多数这天出生的女性，早期只是无助的小角色，后来才突破成为超级的强人。就这方面来说，他们是斗士，能克服极大的困境及童年的创伤；因此，他们特别能够了解别人的挫折创伤，会是很合适、称职的心理辅导人员，至于男性，则会是很好的组织者或管理人。

这天出生的男性则会依赖个人魅力与天赋去讨人喜欢。他们喜欢高高在上，受家人、朋友、群众的崇拜，因此会有自大的毛病。发展衔墒斓娜耍芴殉龉鹊纳萸笙靶裕⒄钩杉崆俊⒆宰愕母鋈恕Ｗ苤嘌嬲那榫允侵档玫摹?

无论男女，他们都会是好父母，了解子女娱乐与教育各方面的需求。通常，他们会付出必要的时间与心力，让子女感受到他们的关爱。同时，他们也了解一个家庭的经济稳定有多重要。不过，他们并不会宠坏子女，对重要的事他们仍非常坚持，而且他们最重视的，就是子女性格的发展。

6月18日出生的人有趣而且爱玩，然而他们的脾气也相当倔强。即使个性温和，对待道德上犯错的人却会很严厉。他们抱持凡事忍让的态度，但只要是有关荣誉与信用的事，他们绝不会有所松动。凡是玩游戏之类的事，都很能吸引他们，因为他们很难拒绝有趣的事，而且喜欢各种有趣的游戏。

他们通常对配偶、家人、朋友都很忠心，当然他们有时候也会被引诱，但很少会为了能与另一个人共享更美好的将来，而牺牲自己所爱的人。他们是很棒的、负责任的朋友，但是有时会喜欢操纵别人，而且有点古怪，他们必须想办法改善这两个缺点。另外，因为容易无聊，他们必须不断寻求新刺激与变化，其实，这些特质有时候才是引诱他们误入歧途的因素，而不是其他道德方面的天性。

幸运数字和守护星 6月18日出生的人，受到数字9（1+8=9）以及火星的影响。这种情况对受水星支配的双子座而言，可能会有麻烦，会使他们好争辩，而且容易因为生气而丧失理智，所以必须要注意情绪的爆发，又因为他们好争论容易树敌，也应该避免引发冲突。此外，受到来自数字9的火星力量的影响，双子座偏向心智的特质，会定期被抛至一旁。

健康
6月18日出生的人，因为是双子座，所以要特别注意双手、手臂、神经系统，小心处理沮丧的情绪，并且要注意呼吸系统，避免吸烟过度。因为同时具有注重心灵和物质金鱼的倾向，他们喜欢把钱与时间投资在健康上，比方去做瑜珈、冥想、或心灵训练等。他们也很实际，会看到传统运动的价值，诸如散步、游泳和基础体操等等。性爱生活能使他们快乐，但通常不是生活的重心。一般说来，他们都能煮一手好菜，而且能够控制自己的饮食。

建议
试着统整生活各个不同的层面。分散力量在每个领域。努力调整，或至少认清自己的坏习惯。偶尔脱离一下世俗生活。

名人
保罗麦卡尼(Paul McCartney)英国歌手、作曲家、低音贝斯手，曾是披头四成员。1979年的各项纪录显示，保罗堪称是当年最成功的作曲家，他的单曲以卖出一亿张，此外他所创作或分人合作的歌曲，也有43首成为百万金曲。
篮球中锋米肯(George Mikan)，曾参加三次全美大赛，带领湖人队五度蟑联美国职业篮球赛冠军宝座，美国职业篮球队领队。

依莎贝拉罗塞里尼(Isabella Rossellini)模特儿及电影演员，是知名导演罗塞里尼及演员英格丽褒曼的双胞胎女儿之一，曾演出《蓝丝绒》。

美国诺贝尔化学奖得主赫胥贝奇(Dudley R.Herschbach) ，研究反应力学。
达拉第(Edouard Daladier)，曾任法国总理，同意让希特勒参与在慕尼黑瓜分捷克的会议。

美国棒球外野手布洛克(Lon Brock)，曾获八次全国棒球赛的盗垒王，并创下3.023的打击率纪录。

塔罗牌
大秘仪塔罗牌的第18张是“月亮”，主要代表梦境、情感和潜意识的世界。传统上，月亮的形象是女性的力量和情感的化身。因此，牌面正立时的意义是敏感、体谅与感同身受。牌面倒立则表示情感上的顺从、被动和缺乏自我。

静思语
事实上，就事情的更大层面而言，很多出于同一意识的想法、行动，其实是同时并进的。

优点
活力充沛、理财高手、有影响力。

缺点
喜爱操纵、古怪、一刻也闲不下来。

2006-06-23T17:08:00.000+08:00

6月4日批评专家

因为心思敏捷、言词流利，6月4日出生的人常是众所瞩目的焦点。不管讨论任何主题，他们的灵感有如活水泉头，源源不绝；但是要表达反对意见时，他们反而不太能分辨利害，张口结舌。虽然他们不是很理想的领导人选，但仍有可能爬到最高的管理阶层；不过，这么高的地位，容易使他们缺乏安全感，所以得避免专断独裁。其实，在团队工作中他们若能被充分授权，就会觉得快乐多了。

6月4日出生的人，要小心维持性格中难得的弹性，否则可能会受困于严厉的规则或教条，以及负担一些暖昧不明的责任中。最令他们高兴的是，学习某项专业或培养某种兴趣的过程，作为一个学习者，他们擅长持续不懈地迈向成功之路。因为不耐烦单调、没有远景的工作，他们必须时时开始着手新计划，好满足追求进步的热情。他们的缺点是，会把怒气发泄在家人、朋友或工作伙伴身上。

他们的用语充满批判性，即使言之有理，还是会引起别人的不悦。所以，他们应该多注意人际关系的处理，努力培养不带嘲讽的幽默感；毕竟，珠玑妙语表达的客观事实，更容易被人接受。

这天出生的人的专业才能是毋庸置疑的，他们不是该领域中的专家，就是在职场上被争相聘用的人才。许多人不但对自己的专业很在行，而且能建立良好的组织环境。在帮别人出主意时，内心或许会有些迟疑，但是他们优秀的组织能力还是能将意见分歧的个人，成功地组合成有凝聚力、有效率的团体。

6月4日出生的人对事务的判断全凭直觉。具有工作狂倾向的他们，要注意避免同时投入太多工作，导致心力交瘁。至于生理方面的需求，不管在休闲或性爱活动上，都不应该刻意压抑，应该要适时纾解，多花时间去表达自己的关爱，多做一些日常生活的贴心动作。事实上，要他们接受别人的感情并不成问题，但要他们接受别人的帮助却是难上加难。其实，他们应该明白，在人生的成长过程中，施与受同样重要。

幸运数字和守护星
6月4日出生的人，受到数字4以及天王星的影响。受到数字4影响的人非常自我，好与争辩，也不容易与他人相处；尤其是在6月4日出生的人身上更为严重。他们的心智敏锐、脆弱，很难承受被人拒绝。再加上天王星对数字4的影响，他们可能会有非常突兀、激烈的情绪转换。这项特质只有在6月4日出生的人身上最明显，因为他们同时受到水星（双子座的主宰行星）的强烈影响，再加上水星对天王星的作用造成的。

健康
如果运动量不够的话，6月4日出生的人可能会在中年发福。所以，建议从事较具况争性的运动，不但可以防止发胖，更可以磨掉太过激进的个性。染上烟瘾跟酗酒过度均非常伤身，必须不计任何代价特别去避免。终其一生，这天出生的人的神经系统可能会经历不少重大病痛，必须注意：而且，虽然在年轻时常常需要让自己冷静一点，以免太冲动；年纪大之后，反而要小心容易满足于现状的心态。随着岁月的流逝，他们要试着保持活力，不但要适度引导，而且要控制得宜。饮食方面，他们相当传统，不妨多尝试新的菜色跟食物，以达到营养均衡吸收。学习烹饪技术是扩大自己口味的最佳方法。

建议
多了解更高层次的本我。在人生道路上找到一个引导。别害怕寻求帮助--大部分人都会乐意帮忙的。接受真实的自己，并且多去关怀、包容别人。工作上不妨善用休假，学习偶尔什么事都不做、都不想。

名人
玛丽娜(Judith Malina)德裔舞台剧演员、导演，纽约现代剧场的创办人之一。

台湾电视节目主持人胡瓜，成名节目《百战百胜》，现同时主持多个综艺节目，成为超人气巨星。

美国男高音梅里尔(Robert Merrill)，曾在托斯卡尼尼担任指挥的歌剧录音中演唱，1965年在纽约出版自传《重新开始》。

宋美龄女士，蒋介石夫人，著名社会活动家。

美国电影演员布鲁斯邓(Bruce Dern)，他是演员萝拉邓的父亲。

爵士乐作曲家、编曲家、中高音及次低音萨克斯管手尼尔森(Oliver Nelson)。

塔罗牌
大秘仪塔罗牌的第4张是“皇帝”，他的力量主要来源是智慧，并以此统治世间万物。皇帝的地位至高无上，他的权威不容质疑。牌面正立时，代表坚强的意志和稳固的能量；当牌面倒立时就表示任性、暴虐和残忍。

静思语
忠言逆耳。

优点
重视精神层面、语言能力强、直觉力强。

缺点
过分要求、批判性太强、过度压抑。

<3 MusT CheriSh eveRy mOmEnTs witH uR lOvE onEs <3

2006-06-22T02:43:00.000+08:00

1)How old do you wish you were?

- 1-3yrs old becoz dun know anything~

2) Where were you when 9/11 happened?

- forgotten~ at hoMe?

3) What do you do when vending machines stealyour money?

- knock it. =P *LOL*

4) Do you consider yourself kind?

- yeah~ but dear more kind~ *smile*

5) If you had to get a tattoo, where would it be?

- somewhere hidden coz my mum will kill me~ ormaybe hips, ankle, hand~ *LOL*

6) If you could be fluent in any other language,what would it be?

- Japan, Korean, Spain, France.. =]

7) Do you know your neighbors?

- know but not so close..

8) What do you consider a vacation?

- anywhere, just out of singapore =D

9) Do you follow your horoscope?

- depends

10) Would you move for the person you loved?

- YeS ^_^

11) Are you touchy feely?

- yeah~ ^_^

12) Do you believe that opposites attract?

- not sure leh~

13) Dream job?

- To be a businesswoman~ earn 5 digit monthly~hOpe wiSh come tRue~ =\ -,-"

14) Favorite channel(s)?

- cartoon, nice show can liao. =)

15) Favorite place to go on weekends?

- slack @ home or go out with dear

16) Showers or Baths?

- baths but i`m lazy so shower will do, coz water tocold. =P

17) Do you paint your nails?

- yeahz~~

18) Do you trust people easily?

- yEs..

19) What are your phobias?

- haha~ INSECTS. snake. SCARE!!

20) Do you want kids?

- yeahz.. 2-3 can liao, if can~ *LOL* but not now! =D

21) Do you keep a handwritten journal?

- nope, i`m lazy...

22) Where would you rather be right now?

- sleeping and have a nices dream.. hate nightmare..

23) Who makes you feel warm and fuzzy?

- Dearly Vic aKa zhi wei loR. And my blanket~

24) Heavy or light sleeper?

- both heavy and light sleeper.. hehe~

25) Are you paranoid?

- ?? dun know ??

26) Are you impatient?

- yes, super impatient =X

27) Who can you relate to?

- dear~ n candra~ LOL!

28) How do you feel about interracial couples?

- AaAa.. dun know~

29) Have you been burned by love?

- forgotten. forget. memories. past.. hoPe won't burn again~ LoLz

30) What’s your favorite pick-up line?

- helloz~

31) What’s your main ring tone on your mobile?

- Canon D

32) What were you doing at midnight last night?

- Using Computer~

33) What did the last text on your cellphone say?

- -->"haha.." thats all (~__~)"

34) Whose bed did you sleep in last night?

- my beddy laH!!

35) What color shirt are you wearing?

- my favourite color -- PINK!

36) Most recent movie you watched?

- MI3 (quite nice)

37) Name three things you have on you at all times?

- necklace, purse, mirror.. *LOL* =D

38.) What color are your bed sheets?

- pink, purple, white (with flower) kekeke~

39) How much cash do you have on you right now?

- SUPER broke so shhh~~~ Quiet~*

40) What is your favorite part of the chicken?

- chicken breast.. *LOL* heehee

41) What’s your favorite town/city?

- i also don`t know.. Hong Kong de town ba~ hahaha~

42) I can’t wait till:

- Shopping spree!! LOL!!

43) What did you have for dinner last night?

- potato with dark sauce~ i cook de haha~ they finish all.. =D

44) How tall are you barefoot?

- 160m ba =]

45) Do you own a gun?

- of coz not!! LOL!

46)What do u prefer to drink in the morning?

- nothing or plain water

47)What is your secret weapon to lure in the opposite sex?

- no secret weapon~

48)Where do u think you’ll be in 10 yrs?

- happily married staying @ home be housewife=PpP

49) Last thing you ate?

- chicken cutlet~

50) Last thing that made you laugh?

- see (Da Chang Jin)

51) Worst injury you’ve ever had?

- when i was young.. I climb up 2 the chair 2 brushmy teeth, suddenly my small chair move i fall andknock on the basin, my chin bleed none stop.

52) Does someone have a crush on you?

- don`t think so =\

53) What’s your favorite candy?

- chocolate =) <3

54)What song do you want played at your funeral?

- yOu aLL sinG { Tong Hua } ~ fOr mE~ T_T

~ lOvE cAn bE sO sWeeT anD aLso BitteR at tiMes ~

2006-06-22T01:49:00.000+08:00

_______CURRENTLY_______
1. With someone: alOne
2. missing someone: always yOu =D
3. Mood: tired =(
4. Wanting: yOu happy <3>
_________BEST_________
1. Male friend : =]
2. Female friend : candra aka Racer hoon
3. Vacation: Redang ?? LOL!
4. Memory: memOries ); Hmm with my dearly him lor..

_______WORST_______
1. Time of day: quarrel loR
2. Day of the week : quarrel till cry loR~
3. Food: forgot.. LOL!
4. Memory: fOrget it bah..

_______LAST_______
1. Person you saw: my young cousin brother
2. Person u talked to on the phone: *hOnEy* <3
3. Hugged: *hOnEy* <3
4. Text messaged: *DeaRie hOnEy* ^^ <3
5: Email : Friendster

_______TODAY_______
1. What are you doing : gO oUt witH dEaR 2 nOrThPoinT~~ then go my aunty house =D <3>2. Tonight: going to sleep soon after bath..
3. Wearing: black color t-shirt and jeans.
4. What did you eat for lunch: i missed my lunch =\
5. Better than yesterday : Tomorrow will be better ba~ =D

_______TOMORROW_______
1. Is: Boring Ba??
2. Got any plans: find jobs, wOrk hard.
3. Getting Lucky: hOpe wiLL lucky ba~
4. Dislikes about tomorrow : wat for??
5. Do u have work: No.. =\

_______FAVORITES_______
1. Number: 6, 11 ,18, 83, 85, 25
2. Song: Super many song.. hmm.. tong hua ba~
3. Color: blackk, whitee, pinkk <3
4. Seasons: Autumn.. =D

~* I am 58percent girlish *~

2006-06-22T01:41:00.000+08:00

[x]my fingernails/toenails are almost alwayspainted
[x]during the summer pretty much the onlyshoes i wear are flip flops
[x]my favorite toy as a child were barbies
[ ]my favorite color is purple
[ ]i did Gymnastics
[x]i love skirts
[ ]hollister is my favorite place to shop
[x]tight jeans are the only jeans i'll wear
[x]i love chocolate
[ ]i've never had a real job
TOTAL: 6

[x]my hair is straightened (curls roz acctuallie)
[x]i have at least 8 friendster pictures
[x]i usually go shopping once a week
[x]i love to hang out with friends
[x]i have a real diamond ring or diamond necklace
[ ]i've gone to a tanning salon
[x]ive gone to the beach to tan - not to swim
[x]i have at least 10 pairs of shoes
[x]i watch either the OC or Laguna Beach
[ ]i change my icon weekly
TOTAL: 8

[ ]i wear a shower cap
[ ]I would NEVER step foot into Hot Topic
[x]my cell phone might as well become a part of me
[ ]i wear mascara everyday
[ ]i've been or am on a diet
[x]bathing suits are adorable
[ ]i dont know the difference between a sheepanda goat.
[x]big sunglasses are hott
[x]i have gotten my nails done
[x]i own over 10 purses
TOTAL: 5

[x]MTV is one of my favorite channels
[x]all i want to do at sleepovers is talk aboutboys
[x]i love to have other girls do my hair
[ ]i give and receive hugs from all my friends
[x]i hate bugs, snakes, lizards, spiders
[x]carnivals are so fun!!
[ ]summer is THE best season
[x]my swimsuit has 2 pieces
[ ]im waiting for my knight in shining armor
[ ](unless de guy is fat n ugly)pianists are so hot.
TOTAL: 6

[ ]u write me a poem and tell me im beautifuland im all yours
[x]i am self-conscious.
[x]i cry often
[ ]my car smells like vanilla
[x]my dishes get washed more then once a week
[x]i dont do sports
[x]i HATE to run
[ ]i squeal when im surprised or angry
[x]i eat dried fruit as a snack
[x]i love romance novels
TOTAL: 7

[ ]Drew Barrymore is so cute
[ ]i dance a lot
[x]i usually spend over an hour to get ready toleave my house
[ ]i only have like 5 billion hair products
[x]i love to get dressed up.
[x]every part of my outfit needs to match
[ ]i talk on the phone at least once a day to myfriends
[x]i would love to have a photo shoot of myself
[x]price on clothes hardly matters
[ ]i apply lip gloss 20 times a day
TOTAL: 5

[x]i wish i were a model
[ ]i wish i could meet Paris Hilton to slap her
[ ]i have been something that was slutty onhalloween
[ ]i own Uggs
[x]Hip Hop is the best music
[ ]i pop my collar
[ ]i like to be the center of attention
[ ]guys with Mohawks are crazy
[ ]horses are beautiful
[x]i'd rather not pay attention in school
TOTAL: 3

[ ]cats are adorable
[ ]i write my own music/song/lyric
[x]i would love to visit Hawaii
[x]Valentine's day is so cute!
[x]white is better then black
[x]i wouldn't be caught dead in all black
[x]my closet is STOCK FULL of clothes
[x] i hate the grunge look of a beard
[x]i love to read gossip magazines
[x]i love to gossip
TOTAL: 8

[ ]I had Lisa Frank folders, posters as a kid
[ ]i love Celine dion
[ ]My bubble baths are 2 hr long
[ ]my wedding only needs a groom because it'salready planned
[ ]my friends and i are in a strict group. wemostly only hang out with each other only.
[x]i like kids
[ ]diet drinks are the best
[ ]im all about being vegetarian
[ ]i refuse to eat at McDonald's
[x]i check my friendster everyday.
TOTAL: 2

[x]i LOVE life!
[x] have a lot of jewlery!
[ ]claires has cheap jewlery
[ ]my screen names have x's in them -
[x]either one of my friendster profile has/had<3>
[x]would never want to be the opposite sex
[x]it's not what he/she said it's the way he/she said it
[x]have more than 3 pillows on my bed
[x]i have a stuffed toy sleeping beside me
[x] i love tidy and clean places

TOTAL: 8ADD UP ALL OF THE TOTALS AND REPOSTWITH I AM [....] PERCENT GIRLISH

To mY DeaR~ HAPPY BIRTHDAY {^o^}v

2006-06-18T02:06:00.000+08:00

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My DeaR~ wiSh yOu aLL yeaRs aLsO
sO~~~ hAnDsOmE~* hAhA hOpE yOu wiLL
aLwaYs bE sO cuTe~*
sO noiSe~* sO cArinG~*
hAhA~ wHen caN i geT my
TesTiMoniaL baCk hUh?!~

DeaR yOu rEmEmbeR waT yOu teLL
mE oN yOur laSt yeaR biRthdaY~
hEhE hoPe yOu won't fOrgOt~
i wiLL keEp it iN mY hEarT dE~*
anYwaY I wiLL lovE yoU witH aLL i cAn~

You are me beloved "Honey"
from my bottom of my heart
i really love you alots.
I hope we can share every moments of
LOVE and HEARTS together.

FrOm youR
beLovEd DarLinG aKa LinGLinG *mUaCkz*

OuR mEmOrieS

2006-06-10T01:00:00.000+08:00

~ Tips to be a better couple ~

2006-06-07T01:06:00.000+08:00

~ Tips to be a better couple ~

10 steps to enjoying each other better...

1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she hashad her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials or treat ments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.

2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur favourite pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about!When u stop talking to each other from the heart,it's the beginning of the end.

3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together,or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road.Watch soccor with him once in a while though thegreen patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds.And guys, do give in if ur Condensed Light gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!

4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt withthe "The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much ofa fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy. There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship,so learn to meet each other halfway.

5.Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume every now and then, even if u have been together for 5 years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-sock she can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ),buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.

6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys/pretty girls and make him/her feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.

7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.

8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eaves dropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finally killing it. Trust ur partner.

9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk!

10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing ur feelings clearly

My 21sT BirThDay~~

2006-06-04T11:17:00.001+08:00

My 21sT BirThDay~~

2006-06-04T11:17:00.000+08:00

My 21sT BirThDay~~

2006-06-04T11:00:00.000+08:00

CuTe cUtE CuTe~*

2006-05-31T01:00:00.000+08:00

给你一个故事，希望你能喜欢这个故事并希望它能为你带来好运

2006-05-24T03:20:00.000+08:00

Please click on (View->Encoding->Unicode (UTF-8) tO sEe thIs.. *^_^*v

从前，有一个脾气很坏的男孩.他的爸爸给了他一袋钉子，告诉他，每次发脾气或者跟人吵架的时候，就在院子的篱笆上钉一根。第一天，男孩钉了37根钉子。后面的几天他学会了控制自己的脾气，每天钉的钉子也逐渐减少了。他发现，控制自己的脾气，实际上比钉钉子要容易的多。终于有一天，他一根钉子都没有钉，他高兴的把这件事告诉了爸爸。

　　爸爸说："从今以后，如果你一天都没有发脾气，就可以在这天拔掉一根钉子." 日子一天一天过去，最后，钉子全被拔光了。爸爸带他来到篱笆边上，对他说："儿子，你做得很好，可是看看篱笆上的钉子洞，这些洞永远也不可能恢复了。就象你和一个人吵架，说了些难听的话，你就在他心里留下了一个伤口，像这个钉子洞一样。"插一把刀子在一个人的身体里，再拔出来，伤口就难以愈合了。无论你怎么道歉，伤口总是在那儿。要知道，身体上的伤口和心灵上的伤口一样都难以恢复。你的朋友是你宝贵的财产，他们让你开怀，让你更勇敢。他们总是随时倾听你的忧伤。你需要他们的时候，他们会支持你，向你敞开心扉。"告诉你的朋友你多么爱他们，告诉所有你认为是朋友的人，你的行动可以从邮寄这个小小的故事开始。有一天，当这封信回到你的信箱里时。你会发现你有一个很大的朋友圈.

最后，我要说："友谊的幸福之一，是知道了可以向谁倾吐秘密。"如果你收到了这封信，是因为有人在默默的祝福你，因为你也爱你身边的一些人。如果你总说太忙，不能将这封信转寄出去，老是说："改天再寄。"你将永远都不会去做这件事的。所以，不要找借口，静心的看看这篇古老印度来的故事，然后决定为你的朋友们作一些事，从传寄这封信开始。当你说："你是我的好朋友"时，请认真的说出来。当你道歉时请看着对方的眼睛。

永远不要嘲笑别人的梦想。不要随便给一个人定性。说话时要慢，思想时要快。

打电话的时候请你微笑，对方一定感觉得到。

The Art of Dating

2006-05-24T03:00:00.000+08:00

Dating is like chess. You can read all about it, but until you play it, you wouldn't know if you can. You can read all chess strategies and gambits, but until you meet another player, you wouldn't know if you know enough. There are computer programmes that can play chess but for us, human players it's still a combination of art and science.
Dating is more an art than a science, and like any art or like chess, practice makes perfect. That person that smiled at you - was there more to the smile than just a friendly greeting? Would a date be incredibly exhilarating, or unimaginably boring? How do you reject a second date with grace, honesty, and class? Or how do you say 'okay let's try again' but with conditions without seeming to dictate the pace and direction of the relationship?

Every relationship is different, and yet every relationship is the same. Dating is a difficult art to master, and you really aren't out to master it, but just get enough of a feel for it so you know enough to play the game.

So good dates or bad dates, learn from them, and move on. Happy dating!

Learn from your mistakes

2006-05-24T02:49:00.000+08:00

You are who you are today because of all your yesterdays.

Good or bad, painful or joyful, proud moments or moments you would rather forget.

Every one of those days, weeks and months in the past made you into the person you are today. All your crushes, infatuations, puppy loves, first loves, great loves, secret loves have brought you to this point in your life.

Every one you met, every love you loved and yes, maybe even the very love you've lost. You can live in the world of "what ifs?". You can live in the past. Or you can live in the real world - in here and now, with the rest of us.

But sometimes the romantic in us cannot let go. One person refers to his ex as "The Love of the First Half of my Life". In doing so, he acknowledges the importance of this person in his life. But he also reminds himself that that was only the first half of his life. There's still the rest of his life to lead.

To go forward is by forgiving yourself... and others, but to never forget the lessons you've learnt.

It is better to have loved and lost (yes! even again and again!), than never to love again.

However if you start referring to your ex-es as "The love of May 23, the Love of May 24, the Love of May 25... I think you have a different set of problems.

Or rather no problems :-)

Marriage is a big step... learn to take small ones first

2006-05-24T02:46:00.000+08:00

If you met your soul mate today, what would you do for him or her? Put it another way, if you met THE ONE, what *wouldn't* you do? As we get older, we get more reserved. We fear looking foolish. We become less in touch with our natural impulses. We grow older.

Romance needs a young soul. It doesn't matter how old you are, only how young you are willing to be. And you don't need to risk it all in one great act of 'Romance'. Start small. Take small steps. Make small commitments. Change little things about yourself for The One that Might Be. Maybe try a new food, try a new experience, like theatre or roller-blading. A journey of 1000 miles begins with a step.

Take that step. Who knows where it might lead.

The many faceted person

2006-05-24T02:44:00.000+08:00

Looking for love is not the only reason you have for living. Sure, it may be an important goal. It may be a priority. But it should not consume your every waking moment.

There are other things in life that are important. Other things you also need to learn. Other ways you need to develop. If you focus only on the lack of a partner in your life, you are diminished not by what you lack, but by your obsession with it.

The one you finally find and marry will not just want you for a lover, but as a confidante, a joker, a co-parent for your children, an anchor in times of stress, a playmate, a teacher, a student, a co-learner on this journey we call life, a helpmate, a soulmate, a friend... you get the picture. There are many facets to a healthy person. They help anchor your sanity in life.

So be ALL you can be. It makes you a better person. And if you're a better person, you'll have a better chance of getting that love of your life that you truly deserve.

Yang Cheng Ling's Video

2006-05-19T03:48:00.000+08:00

Yang Cheng Ling Song & Commercial~ Find this song cute & nice.. Here is the video, pls sit down and relax.. *^-^*

* Love Is In The Air *

2006-05-16T04:00:00.000+08:00

~+. HonEyz LovE yOu aLwAys .+~

2006-05-16T02:53:00.000+08:00

Tired now~ but still must say something out from my heart~ =)

Dear really love you alots alots you know? Just wan to tell you our promise is a promise ok.. cannot break it ok? Really appreciate alot.. Know that you work hard every days, every moment, to earn money for our future~ really feel like crying.. you know what i thinking everyday? Thinking the things you have told me, the way you care me, the way you hugging me let me feel so warm~ I LOVE YOU so muchzz~~~
You know sometime when quarrel with you, i feel so bad, so sad you know.. I just want you to know no matter what i will stand by your side~ Dun think to much ok? I know this few weeks, you are super stress.. But tell yourself, you can do it ok.. Dun give up ok? I will make more (Liang Cha)Herb Tea for you to drink ok? And more foods for you to

Honeyzz you must take care also.. dun always get yourself wet in the rain will get sick you know??!! Remember to wear your raincoat when you riding bike ok? DeaR if you have anythings just tell me ok? Dun put inside your heart ok.. Can share with me?? Hmmm JusT wAnnA teLL yOu, I mIsS yOu verY tHe mUcH anD LovE yOu sO mUcH~~~

Love 10% = 100%

2006-05-12T01:37:00.000+08:00

Please click on (View->Encoding->Unicode (UTF-8) tO sEe thIs.. (^_^)v

愛情

10% 執著
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10%想念
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10%吃醋
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10%疑心
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10%甜蜜
+
10%心疼
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10%幸福
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10%妒嫉
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10%臉紅
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10%撒嬌
=
100%愛情

My PiCuTeS

2006-05-11T17:11:00.000+08:00

¤♥ L ^ O ^ V ^ 3 ♥¤ cUtE~* cUtE~*

2006-05-11T14:52:00.000+08:00

OuR nEw PiCtUrEs~*

2006-05-10T03:20:00.000+08:00

hAvinG BaD TiiMes

2006-04-12T02:11:00.000+08:00

oPpS~ Sorry~ Had been so long i never come here to post already~ *siGh*
World really changes alot within few days~ haha correct wat.. the world wont stop rounding, if i stop thinking things in my brain~ correct??
Really getting tired~ I feel so lonely~ boring~ useless~ dun know why am i become like that. Maybe Fate want me to be like that~ But also can't blame FATE right. **Fathead Me**

May I know does he still loving me~ May I know is he still loving me deep enough like last time~ Does he just want to show me that now he started to care me or what? I really dun know~ really.. I really dun know what to do. I'm scare.. I have cry everytime my heartbreaks once~ But now, i dun know why i started to cry less or even never cry.. Is this Fade~ I dun know~ BUT i still wanna to care him alot~ and sometime i feel like wanting him to care me more~

Suddenly i feel he start to tell me joke.. and i find it funny.. but i really hate people that fall asleep while i am talking.. But i really dun know what to do.. Can anybody tell me what to do?
I just dun like people tell me things that never happen and or tell me things that make me super mad~ Rubbish better dun say~ I like bikes but cant almost everyday telling me bikes topic right? Can say others Topic??!!

I like this 2 days feeling more than last time.. I dun know wat to do.. should i give up or not?? I find that this 2 days i go out with him just few hours but i find happy through the Talk~ *hAiz* Can this last Long Term~
God pls help me can?
Dun ask me if i giving you chances or not.. if you did enough, did well, good enough,care enough,concern enough, and console me whenever i'm sad..
i will do it same as you~ =) but now i think we shell befriend 1st~ ok? =)

OuR mEmOrieS

2006-03-26T02:38:00.000+08:00

TooK thiS pHoTo thaT dAy 19/03/2006 3:07pm =)

hEhE~ DeaR DeaR sOrrY wOr~ tHis Few wEEks keeP on maKe u so Pek Cek~ lolx sorry lah ok?? I apologize by cooking some meals for you ok?? hEhE`` You like to eat what you can name it.. and i try to cook those food that you like to eat.. becoz the food that i cook, scare not ur favour or ur taste~~ kekeke~ *mUaCkz*

LovE sToRy```` FeeL sO TouCh~~

2006-03-16T23:37:00.000+08:00

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~JuSt knOwinG mE^^ LoLz~

2006-03-07T03:51:00.000+08:00

1. Favorite colour : pink. black. white. baby blue.

2. Favorite month : june. sept. oct.
3. Favorite day : my birthday - June 4!! 1 week later~~ our anniversary - June 11!! 1 week later~ dearz b'day - June 18.. lolx (^_^)v
4. Favorite zodiac : gemini. cow. pig.
5. Favorite alphabet : L.V.Z stay for VIC dear's name.
6. Favorite number : 6.11.18.
7. Favorite subject : chinese.
8. Most Favorite planet : staR iszzit planet.. lolx~
9. Most Favorite season : summer.autumn. coz summer can suntan..lolx autumn is having cool cool feeling~ but to bad singapore all days Summer.
10. Most Happening Day: hmm.. my 20th birthday that day sad loR~
11. Favorite teacher : miss tan.
12. Most Favorite fruit : all kind of friut i also like, example mango. strawberry. cherry. honeydew. etc etc!!
13. Most Favorite TV channel : SCV but i dun have in my house..*soB*
14. Most Favorite time : every single moment when i m enjoying.
15. Favorite name : valerine. ting ting. yang. vic.
16. Favorite Computer Game : hmmm. ragnarok(lastime). miniclip(sometime) lolx.
17. Favorite Tea : friut tea.
18. Favorite Country : Hong kong. shopping,eat,shopping,eat,shopping,eat.. Taiwan. Maldives. New Zealand. Australia. Japan!
19. Favorite Song : tong hua. nice songs from various singers too. lolx.
20. Favorite Singer : wang lee hom. JJ lin jun jie. jay zhou. jolin. cyndi. energy. elva. etc etc.
21. Favorite Language : japanese. korean. english. mandarin.
22..Favorite Sport : cycling. swimming,but i dun know how to swim. badminton. etc etc.
23. Favorite Ice cream : chocolate chip. jackfriut taste. plum. chocolates. Swensens.
24. Favourite Past time : when i was a child~ but to lonely. anything that make me happy in the past, all i like.
25. Favorite pen : colourful pen.
26. Favorite Font : comic sans ms.
27. Favorite Animal : hamster. cow.
28. Favorite Anime : cartoon lor. but not sure anime is wat. lolx
29. Favorite Movies : initial d. anD moRe.
30. Favorite Male actor: stephen Fung. wu yan zu.
31. Favorite Female Actress: noT surE. jeanette aw. fiona xie. jacylyn. and some new actress.
32. Favorite cOmic bOOks: i fOrgoT the name woR. lolx.
33. Favorite food : katong laksa. pasta mania. pizza hut. mos burger. whatever i think is nice!

34. Favorite Friends : fren lor. =) say names will make them think to muchz. >.<"

35. Favorite drink: lime. orange. apple juices. peach tea. lemon tea. sarsi. etc.

36. Favorite Album : cydni album, jolin album, jay album, energy album, JJ album.

37. Favorite Radio station : 93.3fm. lingzhi de ying yue ri ji. but now no more liao right? lolz.

38. Favorite Cafe : cafe cartel. cafe that is romantic de..

39. Favorite SERIES : taiwan show loR. korean show. xue tian shi. ai de zhang man ren. liu xing hua yuan. etc.

40. Favorite hobby : go out shopping. sleep. explore cooking. daydream. talk rubbish. etc.

41. Favorite house : moi dreamhouse next time!!

42. Favorite phrase : when i find it, i tell you.

43. Favorite Car : Lexus, Mercus, BMW, Jaguar, greedy hoR.just favourite mah. can't have it. (T_T)"

44. Favorite Nickname: snow white(becoz i'm white white white).? (>.<)"

45. Favorite handphone brand : nokia.

46. Favorite Flower : roses and many more but i dun know the names..sorry~* =P

47. Favorite Dessert : Hong Kong's Dessert!! YummY~~

48. Favorite Places : east coast park. mountfaber. bugis. marina square. esplanade. clark quey.

49. Favorite Crush : F4 Jerry Yan. Wang Lee Hom. Energy-Kun Da

50. Favorite Love : mr yeo chi wee. aka. yang zhi wei. yang yang. wei wei. dear dear. honeyz. lolx.

·¥·What does love means actually?·¥·

2006-03-06T05:02:00.000+08:00

What does love means actually?

loving him/her deeply ?
olways there for him/her?
video of happiness?
every single day missing him/her?
OR
letting him/her go?
order yourself to forget him/her?
visiting past memories?
ensure that you are strong to overcome?

when love comes...

you may hurt someone...someone may hurt you
some will be blessed...some will be sad
some may be ignored...some may be treasured

when love goes...

some learn to let go...some choose to hold on
some stay strong...some commit suicide
life goes on for some...life turns hell for some
love seems scary but yet warm...tender and sweet
when you are in love or out of love...you must always have a positive thinking...out of love is not the end of world
and if you are in love...treasure him/her...never hurt him/her...always trust and have faith in her/him...
loving someone yet he/she didn't know...
Love is a funny thing which no 1 seems 2 understand..it comes n goes without letting u know..U can't block when it comes n can't stop when it goes..

☆-MeaninG oF nUmBeR oF rOsEs-☆

2006-03-06T04:51:00.000+08:00

1 Rose Exceptional love all concentrated on you.
2 Roses Two of us deeply in love.
3 Roses I love you.
6 Roses I want to be yours.
9 Roses Love each other eternally.
11 Roses You are the one I love most in my life.
12 Roses Satisfactory union and mutual affinity.
13 Roses Secret admirer.
24 Roses Remember fondly every moment (24 hours cannot forget you).
33 Roses Saying "I love you" with PROFOUND LOVE.
36 Roses Feeling romantic attachment because you come to me.
44 Roses Constant unchangeable pledge.
50 Roses This is "Regretless Love".
56 Roses My love.
66 Roses Successful love affair.
99 Roses Love with understanding makes love eternal.
100 Roses Harmonious union in a century, remain a devoted couple 'till ripe-old age.
101 Roses No other love but you.
108 Roses Please marry me!
111 Roses Eternal love.
123 Roses Free love.
144 Roses Loving you day and night eternally.
365 Roses Thinking of you everyday, love you everyday.
999 Roses Everlasting and eternal love.
1001 Roses Faithful love, 'till forever

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HAPPY NEW YEAR

They aRe BuSybOdy!!!

Singapore Motorshow 2006

My Shopping Week..

Vivo City

I Hate HazE

Mooncake Festival

LOVE LAO GONG

Hurt!!!!

Exhausted!!!

My DisH foR tOdAy!!!!

This is call TRUE LOVE

Sick Sick & My Food

Zodiac Love Match

My Love TesTs

Went tO JB

HaPpY Day

A KOREAN GUY PLAYING CANON WITH GUITAR

SuNdAy

DeaR

EnErGy

My nEw PuRse & Big OniOn

+:*~ SweeT CutiE cHoCoLaTe ~*:+

Fall Sick~~*

My LovE gOne aBit tiReD~~

Something abt feelings.....

The Dos And Don’ts For All Zodiac Signs

What is PRESENCE?

Great Secrets

ALL U NEED IN A "PERFECT" GUY

*~Guardian Angel~*

5 GOLDEN RULES FOR FINDING YOUR LIFE PARTNER

The Truth About Girls

Main Relationships Problems

How to Find a Good Partner

Guys vs Gals

When girls cry??

What She Says vs. What She Means

Does communication help???

Just wanna to share a story with u all~*

SaYinG ~*I LovE yOu*~

5 Secrets of getting a MAN to open up

How To Be A Better Couple

7 secrets of lasting love

Here's some WORDS WOMEN USE, and what they actually mean...

Five surprising reasons men are happy in a relationship

WHY I LOVE YOU

~AT CCK LOT 1~

Girl Dollies

Sweetheart Dollies

6月18日 管理投资

<3 MusT CheriSh eveRy mOmEnTs witH uR lOvE onEs <3

*~ lOvE cAn bE sO sWeeT anD aLso BitteR at tiMes ~*

~* I am 58percent girlish *~

To mY DeaR~ HAPPY BIRTHDAY {^o^}v

OuR mEmOrieS

~ Tips to be a better couple ~

My 21sT BirThDay~~

My 21sT BirThDay~~

My 21sT BirThDay~~

CuTe cUtE CuTe~*

给你一个故事，希望你能喜欢这个故事并希望它能为你带来好运

The Art of Dating

Learn from your mistakes

Marriage is a big step... learn to take small ones first

The many faceted person

Yang Cheng Ling's Video

*~~ Love Is In The Air ~~*

*~+. HonEyz LovE yOu aLwAys .+~*

Love 10% = 100%

My PiCuTeS

¤♥ L ^ O ^ V ^ 3 ♥¤ cUtE~* cUtE~*

OuR nEw PiCtUrEs~*

*hAvinG BaD TiiMes*

OuR mEmOrieS

LovE sToRy```` FeeL sO TouCh~~

*~JuSt knOwinG mE^^ LoLz~*

·¥·What does love means actually?·¥·

☆-MeaninG oF nUmBeR oF rOsEs-☆

+:~ SweeT CutiE cHoCoLaTe ~:+

~Guardian Angel~

SaYinG ~I LovE yOu~

6月18日管理投资

~ lOvE cAn bE sO sWeeT anD aLso BitteR at tiMes ~

* Love Is In The Air *

~+. HonEyz LovE yOu aLwAys .+~

hAvinG BaD TiiMes

~JuSt knOwinG mE^^ LoLz~